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at least you admit it which a lot of us don't! you go gf,If I judge it is not intentional and if I am called on it I normally apologize for I don't get paid for judging period sometimes people come on here and they are seemly I think is how you would put it and they put themselves out there to be judged but until I am paid I won't and if I do it is an accident,there did I cover myself?

I take my time when I get to know someone but everyone form stereotypes unintentionally.

My problem (god i'm transparent ) is that, i normally judge people as good people because i see them getting along with someone else till they violate me. Then, i send them straight to hell, for further grilling with the big boss and his loyal disciples.

Yes I do, I shouldn't I know but 99% of the time I'm right.
FACT !!

When I've gone against my gut instinct it's always been a problem for me so I will continue to judge and trust my initial feeling about somebody.

everyone one i meet is like a blank piece paper initially, as i get to know you, your paper fills up....i look at your page, if i see too much scribble scrabble, i ball up that piece of paper, and put in in the trash... Now, there are times, when I have a sheet that has some notes and some clutter, that sheet, I may sit to the side until later.... And then, I have sheets that I keep and I add to my portfolio....

hope u got it!

When I've gone against my gut instinct it's always been a problem for me so I will continue to judge and trust my initial feeling about somebody.
I'm the same Jan... I completely trust my gut instinct when it comes to people, it saved my life when I was 9 years old and it's allowed my to go into compromising or scary situations with confidence. So many of the experiences I had while traveling involved trusting people, I met a man on the bus in PNG and wound up living with a tribe in the jungle for two weeks, but I knew I could trust him and am so happy to have had that experience!

I judge no one .............whatever people do is their own damn business!

This may be splitting hairs, but I consider that assessing, not judging. Judgment implies condemnation of a person for what you perceive them to be. Assessment is simply deciding if and how you will interact with a person. Or maybe that's just using good judgment.

Judging is for good or bad qualities.

Like the judges of a contest... they judge how good or bad you are..

the latter as you explain it would be.. do you condem.

OK, A slightly better example...

Christians are the first to say that it is wrong to judge...
but are the first to judge!
they feel that being a christian is better and that your life is not full without religion... is this not a judgement?!

This judgement is why most of them are trying to convert you.

And you are judging all Christians in that statement, based on your perception of some that you have met.

Read back... I am the one saying that we ALL judge to a degree.
thus.......... I never said that I don't judge.

But the question wasnt...'do you make large judgements on people'
We all make judgements.. regardless how small.