three_333: Porn is one of the reasons that my last relationship failed. At least, I think so. He was addicted to porn! He couldn't go a week without looking at it, and I was never invited to these little "sessions" of his. Not that I would have accepted, mind you, because porn does absolutely nothing for me, but he didn't know that. But anyways, once I asked him what was on his mind when we were doing sexual things, and he named some famous pornstar. Hello, ouch! Yet, I continued my relationship with him, even attempting to lose a lot of weight in order to look like his "pornstar". (Stupid, I know.) But I think it can be a way of being unfaithful, and in my case, it was, because it wasn't me that he was fantasizing about. The fact that I was not as flexible, thin, and attractive as those girls is what tore our relationship apart.
he was/is a jerk hun..... good thing u let that go! I can't believe that... Dont let yourself be with someone like that, you're better than that sweets.