rasgumby: Fair question....
over time, many peoples body does change drastically.
That don't mean that you just forget about sex or leave them.
Hell, if I look in a mirror before sex.. even I have to think twice about it
Heck, isn't that why God created light switches?
I forget, men are different. Actually I never forget that, I just forgot how much. At least for me, not all women are the same, stimulation has very little to do with looks, and more to do with touch, scent, sensation.
Oh god, now I'm getting myself all bothered.