Why do so many women go for married men?

rasgumby
Moberly, Missouri USA

Posted: Mar 26, 2008, 5:08 PM CST

Seriously,
When I was married, the women never let up.
The sad thing is that many of them hitting on me were her friends (so called)
Seems like so many women.. when they see theat a man is happy or has a family life.. she just needs to try her best to tear it apart.

Why?

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sxc666
Wagga Wagga, New South Wales Australia

Posted: Mar 26, 2008, 5:10 PM CST

I think they like to prove that they can get any man they want to in my opinion, it's almost like a challenge too them.

I know the type of women you are talking about.

In saying that though a man can look at her for what she is (cheap trash) or he can take it further. It takes two to tango.

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blue_eyed_blonde
Vinton, Iowa USA

Posted: Mar 26, 2008, 5:11 PM CST

Yeh, I have seen that more times then not too...makes you wonder..

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kissmedeeply
New brunswick, New Brunswick Canada

Posted: Mar 26, 2008, 5:12 PM CST

Sorry i am not that kind of woman..dont want nor need that

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Alannah
Clackamas, Oregon USA

Posted: Mar 26, 2008, 5:13 PM CST

My former friends that hit on my ex, weren't into him, they just liked how much money he made and that he seemed to be a nice guy.

But, I agree with BEB and Tina, some women just look at it as a challenge, and "I'm better than her", so I should be able to get him.

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blue_eyed_blonde
Vinton, Iowa USA

Posted: Mar 26, 2008, 5:13 PM CST

sxc666 wrote:

I think they like to prove that they can get any man they want to in my opinion, it's almost like a challenge too them.

I know the type of women you are talking about.

In saying that though a man can look at her for what she is (cheap trash) or he can take it further. It takes two to tango.

agreed, they want something they cant have or shouldnt have..its almost like a challenge..both sexes are guilty of it am sure, but I tend to see it more in women.

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dreamAngel70
Laois, near Carlow, Carlow Ireland

Posted: Mar 26, 2008, 5:13 PM CST

I wouldn't!!!

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KrazieStill
Bristol, Connecticut USA

Posted: Mar 26, 2008, 5:13 PM CST

sxc666 wrote:

I think they like to prove that they can get any man they want to in my opinion, it's almost like a challenge too them.

I know the type of women you are talking about.

In saying that though a man can look at her for what she is (cheap trash) or he can take it further. It takes two to tango.

It doesn't take two to tango: Girlfriendless

and you're both right. Maybe I should get a fake ring?

But seriously, where are these women?

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Aries01
Dublin, Dublin Ireland

Posted: Mar 26, 2008, 5:15 PM CST

There are plenty of guys that leave their ring at home as well

girls who do that though.. pathetic!! :

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sxc666
Wagga Wagga, New South Wales Australia

Posted: Mar 26, 2008, 5:17 PM CST

blue_eyed_blonde wrote:

but I tend to see it more in women.

Totally agree on that one BEB.

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Zarah
dublin, Dublin Ireland

Posted: Mar 26, 2008, 5:18 PM CST

Perhaps it boosts their ego to think they can 'steal' another womans man...usually they don't really want them full-time..
As a gal who has had a man cheat..well I would never even look at another gals husband.

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kitty01
Edmonton, Alberta Canada

Posted: Mar 26, 2008, 5:18 PM CST

There was a lady who used to try and get my dad all the time. She would come over and bat her eyes at him and one new years she gave him a kiss that lasted a little too long. My mom went to hit her and ended up hitting my dad. He could not see it.

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Alannah
Clackamas, Oregon USA

Posted: Mar 26, 2008, 5:21 PM CST

Only half joking. Maybe it's because they figure their friend has done all the "hard work", filtered and found a nice guy...and they don't want to bother going through the motions of finding their own.

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morganlee
marmaris, Aegean Turkey

Posted: Mar 26, 2008, 5:22 PM CST

kitty01 wrote:

There was a lady who used to try and get my dad all the time. She would come over and bat her eyes at him and one new years she gave him a kiss that lasted a little too long. My mom went to hit her and ended up hitting my dad. He could not see it.

Hi kitty

hope your ok

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sxc666
Wagga Wagga, New South Wales Australia

Posted: Mar 26, 2008, 5:22 PM CST

kitty01 wrote:

There was a lady who used to try and get my dad all the time. She would come over and bat her eyes at him and one new years she gave him a kiss that lasted a little too long. My mom went to hit her and ended up hitting my dad. He could not see it.

I would have bitch slapped her too.

Women like that I have no time for.

I think if your wifes comes up and says 'hey, I dont think the way she is acting with you is right'. The husband should stand up and listen.

I'm sure a man can tell if a woman is coming onto him.

So do they not see it? or play dumb?

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blue_eyed_blonde
Vinton, Iowa USA

Posted: Mar 26, 2008, 5:24 PM CST

why do some guys fall for it when these women hit on them? Do they crave the attention or flattery?

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kitty01
Edmonton, Alberta Canada

Posted: Mar 26, 2008, 5:24 PM CST

morganlee wrote:

Hi kitty hope your ok

Hi, yes I am fine now, was really sick for a while.

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morganlee
marmaris, Aegean Turkey

Posted: Mar 26, 2008, 5:25 PM CST

kitty01 wrote:

Hi, yes I am fine now, was really sick for a while.

Pleased you are feeling better

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KrazieStill
Bristol, Connecticut USA

Posted: Mar 26, 2008, 5:25 PM CST

Zarah wrote:

Perhaps it boosts their ego to think they can 'steal' another womans man...usually they don't really want them full-time..
As a gal who has had a man cheat..well I would never even look at another gals husband.

I have seen it a lot. May or may not have done it once.

Would never do it again though. I'm too old for that anymore (actually respect myself more).

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kitty01
Edmonton, Alberta Canada

Posted: Mar 26, 2008, 5:26 PM CST

sxc666 wrote:

I would have bitch slapped her too.

Women like that I have no time for.I think if your wife's comes up and says 'hey, I dont think the way she is acting with you is right'. The husband should stand up and listen.

I'm sure a man can tell if a woman is coming onto him.

So do they not see it? or play dumb?

My dad was quite a flirt then and a lot of the women thought he was series, but my dad thought they new he was just teasing.

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