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very simple........hit on her.......... ....... ..........

I was so saddened by the apparent sliminess that I felt it did not warrant an emoticon.

How do you beat the Suns and lose to Toronto!?!

a.d.d. it's all good, we've beaten Toronto in blowouts 2 outta 3 times...can't win every game darlin'....

remember this:



MUCH MORE IMPORTANT TO CREAM THE SUNS!!!! OR ANYONE IN THE WEST----OR THE CELTICS

That would be the end of my friendship...period...

another question then, in the spirit of qhat rasgumpy asked:


You are in a relation and a good friend tells you that your girlfriend/boyfriend is hitting on him/her.

what do you do?

That would be the end of him!!!!!!!!

Who knows why .......most of these relationships end up in disaster anyways.

Who needs the headaches?

Not me....

mmmm
some things are easier said than done

I agree with you of course, more than agree actually...

but i have witnessed friendships die a lot easier than they should from this cause...

unfortunately, no one wants to believe that his partner is anything but a nice girl/guy, pure, loving etc. Its very hard to accept it when you are confronted with it.

I have had such an experience recently. I lost what i considered to be a good friend of mine. Because i told him that his girlfriend made a sexual advancement on me when he was away.

what to do? fly?

Well for me that would be the end of my relationship because my trust was violated...BUT I have had the reverse like you where I told a friend the same and she chose to believe him...UNTIL she caught him screwing some teen and then found out he got another one pregnanant...BUT because she chose not to believe what I told her...I couldn't be bothered being good friends with her anymore...So a lesson...choose not to believe your friends only to prolong the inevitable when it's staring you in the face some day!!!!!!!!!

It would depend on a lot of things,
How good of a friend....
did they dislike your partner to start with?
Many other things, But If all else fails.. I would sit them both down together and bring it out in the open.. let the squabble happen.. watch both closely and decide then, who is telling the truth.

But wouldnt let either go without doing my best to find out the facts.

very good gumby, i needed that advise some time ago. now its too late, but we live to learn and you do have a point.

of course... they were other... *implications* back then...

but still, good advice.

I wish I could have gotten someone to hit on my ex I would have paid good money to have someone come on to him!

Married Men are easy prey. The Woman can get whatever she wants through blackmail. Example: "Give me what I want or I will tell your wife that you have made unwanted physical/sexual advances toward me" Don't care for what I just said? That's to be expected. The truth is rarely popular.

I have experienced "being hit on" (no mistake possible as to intention) by one of my friends partners" never told her just made it very clear to him where to go ... He "hated me" afterwards and was fairly nasty to me (my friend could not understand why ...)

Also been "hit on" (again no mistake possible) by my (then) sister-in-law's partner ... told my husband who later told her but she didn't believe him ...

What I think I understand from other times of my patner/husband being "hit on" or myself or married friends of mine, is that may be it's not so much the challenge they are after but wanting a piece of what they thought "the relationship had" which they wanted for themselves ... not realising that once they would be "involved" with the person who wasn't free to start with, "THE GOOD they couls see/feel in the relationship" would have been destroyed by the very act of "helping them" to be unfaithful

I seriously dont think the relationship could last,
I mean.. if you fool around, and end up leaving your partner for this new person.. How the heck could you ever trust that it wouldn't happen again?


Wouldn't you always be suspicious?

Totally agree!!

I don't care if the fish is married ot not!
Dont bother me in the least to end their relationship...

matter of fact, I would rather catch the entire family and eat them

Some women are more comforatable with a married man because you don't have to worry about commitment.

When I was a single mom starting up a new business I didn't have the time or incliniation for a serious relationship and had an affair with a married man. At the time it suited our purpose and we were happy with the situationl, but looking back I realize how badly his wife would have been hurt had she ever found out and I wouldn't want to be the cause of that... so never again.

On the other hand, I'm really tired of the "other woman" being blamed for everything and the poor married guy being a "victim". What a load of crap! She is not the one who is cheating or breaking her vows... she's single!!!!

I see this thread stopped because no one is ballsy enough to say a word.

But I will. Why? Cause I'm keeping it real. And I'm an a$$hole who doesn't pull punches.

I've lost a sh*t ton of respect here. It's a rediculous thing that you did, and frankly I'm a bit disgusted.

The first part of your post you say how bad you felt, but in the second part, you say the "Other Woman" shouldn't be blamed because she's single.......


ARE YOU FARKING KIDDING ME?

They are both at fault. There ARE NO VICTIMS in this situation except the one cheated ON.

There's plenty of fish in the sea, and you chose to fish in another woman's pond?