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End the relationship BEFORE you start getting the root from somewhere else.

It's called respect.

It's called morals.

End the relationship BEFORE you start getting the root from somewhere else.

It's called respect.

It's called morals.

So here is the problem.....we are raised with the notion (however outdated) that marriage is forever. We strive to find our soul mates and then have the perfect wedding -- hell, prom is the practice party. We get married and have 2.5 children, then realize maybe it's not all the Brady Bunch promised us it would be. But...marriage is forever isn't it? Divorce carries social stigma, financial consequences, loss of children, home, security, etc. An affair is easy, available....with the only consequences being emotional. I'm not saying it's right, I'm saying it's easier. Then we're surprised when it happens! We blame the mistresses or the other men involved...everyone but ourselves. Of course it's cowardly. Of course it's immoral. But so is our society. Our marriages are only a reflection of that.

End the relationship BEFORE you start getting the root from somewhere else.

It's called respect.

It's called morals.

So here is the problem.....we are raised with the notion (however outdated) that marriage is forever. We strive to find our soul mates and then have the perfect wedding -- hell, prom is the practice party. We get married and have 2.5 children, then realize maybe it's not all the Brady Bunch promised us it would be. But...marriage is forever isn't it? Divorce carries social stigma, financial consequences, loss of children, home, security, etc. An affair is easy, available....with the only consequences being emotional. I'm not saying it's right, I'm saying it's easier. Then we're surprised when it happens! We blame the mistresses or the other men involved...everyone but ourselves. Of course it's cowardly. Of course it's immoral. But so is our society. Our marriages are only a reflection of that.

And one more minute on the soapbox and then I'll jump down....
We in particular attack other women because it's easy to do. We've done it in every aspect of our society. Women attack each other for being too heavy or too thin. We criticize each other for being working moms or staying home. We attack for breastfeeding or using formula. We attack each other's hair styles, clothing, shoes, virtually anything we can. Then we expect loyalty or sisterhood from one another when it comes to our relationships? It's a joke.

A family friend has tried to leave his girlfriend but, she attempts suicide everytime. The guy cheats all the time but she doesn't want to let go, so, the guy stays.

I'd say she's asking for it! Mental case.

And one more minute on the soapbox and then I'll jump down....
We in particular attack other women because it's easy to do. We've done it in every aspect of our society. Women attack each other for being too heavy or too thin. We criticize each other for being working moms or staying home. We attack for breastfeeding or using formula. We attack each other's hair styles, clothing, shoes, virtually anything we can. Then we expect loyalty or sisterhood from one another when it comes to our relationships? It's a joke.

A family friend has tried to leave his girlfriend but, she attempts suicide everytime. The guy cheats all the time but she doesn't want to let go, so, the guy stays.

I'd say she's asking for it! Mental case.

Yet you look like the horses arze and a door mat if you know about it and let it continue. Heck you look like a idiot with no standard to live up to and yet you arent the one who is doing wrong

So here is the problem.....we are raised with the notion (however outdated) that marriage is forever. We strive to find our soul mates and then have the perfect wedding -- hell, prom is the practice party. We get married and have 2.5 children, then realize maybe it's not all the Brady Bunch promised us it would be. But...marriage is forever isn't it? Divorce carries social stigma, financial consequences, loss of children, home, security, etc. An affair is easy, available....with the only consequences being emotional. I'm not saying it's right, I'm saying it's easier. Then we're surprised when it happens! We blame the mistresses or the other men involved...everyone but ourselves. Of course it's cowardly. Of course it's immoral. But so is our society. Our marriages are only a reflection of that.

Stay in the relationship...no....Get her committed...yes.
Cheating....still, no way.....no excuse.

Where i come from, it costs a lot to do that, he probably prefers having her committed in their residence.

Not at all...you have to decide what you can and cannot live with. If you felt your relationship was worth saving and you staying in it, that was your decision to make, no one else's. If you decided to move on, that was up to you as well. Only you could make that decision.
it takes two to save a relationship i tried but he wasn't willing to try to save anything but his own arze. so its a two way decision

We all have to live with the choices we make. We can only control our own reactions/our own choices.

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when something is wrong, the number of perpetrators does not have a determining effect on how wrong it is.

Commit her to the streets.

It's just like someone saying "I'm pregnant" so the guy doesn't leave.

I bet she wasn't going to kill herself. I may be wrong, but I doubt she did.

If you want to kill yourself, you do, you don't TRY.

Commit her to the streets.

It's just like someone saying "I'm pregnant" so the guy doesn't leave.

I bet she wasn't going to kill herself. I may be wrong, but I doubt she did.

If you want to kill yourself, you do, you don't TRY.

Trust me Goosey, that's the same advice we gave him.
If she wants to die that badly, perhaps she just should. She's attempted suicide thrice.