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Stop.

oh but they would rather try to point the finger at the one who isn't wronged anyone to make them feel like they are 2inches tall and they try to be the civil one and get crapped on and get nada

Sounds like it didn't go well for you...sorry. I tell any friend going through the process to remember those three little words -- "Hide the money."

Yeah I should have listened to that one.

he took it all before he even announced he was fiilling for the divorce

The good thing is Sunshine you have learn't and will be better prepared next time.

Life can be a shitter at times.

I am planning on there not being a next time (i hope)

Not to make it a divorce thread, but Ohio goes by income percentage in the household for child support. ANd there isn't alimony in the state anymore. Hiding money doesn't work.

Sure it does it's called assets and should be split, has nothing to do with child support or alimony

Alimony is a payment for a woman to "maintain her standard of living" Which I think is BS..she can get a job.

There is no alimony in Ohio any more.

Splitting assets has nothing to do with alimony.

Duhhhh, did you read my post or do you not understand hide the money? I said money is an asset and has nothing to do with child support or alimony.

If one partner manages to hide money or other assets from the court it's very difficult for the other party to get their half.

Please focus on what has been said if you are going to reply to it.

That's what you posted. Where in here do you say hide the money?

Perhaps YOU should read the thread before replying.

[quote=j_goose71]Not to make it a divorce thread, but Ohio goes by income percentage in the household for child support. ANd there isn't alimony in the state anymore. Hiding money doesn't work.[/quote]

If you look back to the post (which was yours) that I replied to...

figure it out???? Clear to you now????

Well hiding money is impossible if you are an honest person....I report my income, you must not. Read back as to my opnion on the whole affair thing and get yourself up to speed.

For f*cks sake goose, I replied to something you said very clearly and you misconstrued it... is it so difficult to admit you didn't understand something or jumped to a conclusion that is incorrect?

I don't know what has happened to you lately... you used to be one of my favorite people on this site and now you've become a holier then thou little preacher... for someone who doesn't believe in Christianity you're doing a bloody good impersonation of a holy roller.

well, 1. I don't like religion pushed down my throat so I push back.
2. I have plenty of friends and don't need any more.
3. And My opnion of you has changed also from your origional post on this thread.



Who's holier than thou?

Well you know that's fine by me... we all make mistakes, at least I have the courage to admit mine and not judge others, maybe you'll grow into that.

Sorry, I haven't ruined anyone's life to admit to at the moment......

My reply about the "other woman" came from reading through the thread. Over and over women are being accused of "going after" a married man, not much has been said about the married men that are out on the prowl, lying to their wives and the women they are hitting on, how many women wind up seeing a married man not realizing he is married?

I never set out to "steal" another woman's man... I met a guy who had a really busy life and wasn't interested in a serious relationship which suited me perfectly at the time... it wasn't until later that I found out his life was so busy because he was married.

I didn't post that in the initial post because I don't make excuses for what I do... I accept the responsibility... but then I didn't think I'd be attacked like this either... so there's your answer goose.

I'm so happy that you've never done anything in your life that was a mistake and can sit in judgement over others.