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i was typing to this girl:

"you are very right"

but i confused the "t" with the "r"

I dunnoo... but it's been driving me nuts. First it was an and and ... then it was the and then

I would have bitch slapped her too.

Women like that I have no time for.I think if your wifes comes up and says 'hey, I dont think the way she is acting with you is right'. The husband should stand up and listen.

I'm sure a man can tell if a woman is coming onto him.

So do they not see it? or play dumb?

Also.. I have absolutely NO sympathy for the 'Other woman' (or man)... if then affair goes tits up and they get hurt..

TUFF SH*T! as far as I'm concerned..

You cannot expect to get involved in other peoples relationships and not get hurt.

I had a (single) friend who was having an affair with a married man.. (she KNEW his wife too).. She would sit around my table telling us all about it..

Then when it all went wrong.. she was bawling her eyes out.. heartbroken.. Some of my friends consoled her.. but tbh honest I didn't at all.. She totally deserved what she got imo... and I DID tell that (in so many words)

As far as I'm concerned if you are going to play about in someone else's relationship.. you are asking ... and deserve to get hurt.

It's not YOUR partner.. it's not YOUR relationship.. it's someone elses.. and you are poking around where you don't belong.. trying to make/take a relationship that wasn't yours in the first place.

I think it's an incredibly SELFISH thing to do.. get your OWN fricking partner.

I have NO sympathy AT ALL for cheating. NONE .

and for then record.. I have always felt like that.. long before it happening in my marriage to me.

If someone I know to be married has ever tried it on with me.. they get a bloody mouthful As you may have gathered seeing some of my posts on CS.. It is something I feel very very VERY strongly about.

mmmm
some things are easier said than done

I agree with you of course, more than agree actually...

but i have witnessed friendships die a lot easier than they should from this cause...

unfortunately, no one wants to believe that his partner is anything but a nice girl/guy, pure, loving etc. Its very hard to accept it when you are confronted with it.

I have had such an experience recently. I lost what i considered to be a good friend of mine. Because i told him that his girlfriend made a sexual advancement on me when he was away.

what to do? fly?

God, you are SEXY when you rant... .......

Also.. I have absolutely NO sympathy for the 'Other woman' (or man)... if then affair goes tits up and they get hurt..

TUFF SH*T! as far as I'm concerned..

You cannot expect to get involved in other peoples relationships and not get hurt.

I had a (single) friend who was having an affair with a married man.. (she KNEW his wife too).. She would sit around my table telling us all about it..

Then when it all went wrong.. she was bawling her eyes out.. heartbroken.. Some of my friends consoled her.. but tbh honest I didn't at all.. She totally deserved what she got imo... and I DID tell that (in so many words)

As far as I'm concerned if you are going to play about in someone else's relationship.. you are asking ... and deserve to get hurt.

It's not YOUR partner.. it's not YOUR relationship.. it's someone elses.. and you are poking around where you don't belong.. trying to make/take a relationship that wasn't yours in the first place.

I think it's an incredibly SELFISH thing to do.. get your OWN fricking partner.

I have NO sympathy AT ALL for cheating. NONE .

and for then record.. I have always felt like that.. long before it happening in my marriage to me.

If someone I know to be married has ever tried it on with me.. they get a bloody mouthful As you may have gathered seeing some of my posts on CS.. It is something I feel very very VERY strongly about.

Seriously,
When I was married, the women never let up.
The sad thing is that many of them hitting on me were her friends (so called)
Seems like so many women.. when they see theat a man is happy or has a family life.. she just needs to try her best to tear it apart.

Why?

Also.. I have absolutely NO sympathy for the 'Other woman' (or man)... if then affair goes tits up and they get hurt..

TUFF SH*T! as far as I'm concerned..

You cannot expect to get involved in other peoples relationships and not get hurt.

I had a (single) friend who was having an affair with a married man.. (she KNEW his wife too).. She would sit around my table telling us all about it..

Then when it all went wrong.. she was bawling her eyes out.. heartbroken.. Some of my friends consoled her.. but tbh honest I didn't at all.. She totally deserved what she got imo... and I DID tell that (in so many words)

As far as I'm concerned if you are going to play about in someone else's relationship.. you are asking ... and deserve to get hurt.

It's not YOUR partner.. it's not YOUR relationship.. it's someone elses.. and you are poking around where you don't belong.. trying to make/take a relationship that wasn't yours in the first place.

I think it's an incredibly SELFISH thing to do.. get your OWN fricking partner.

I have NO sympathy AT ALL for cheating. NONE .

and for then record.. I have always felt like that.. long before it happening in my marriage to me.

If someone I know to be married has ever tried it on with me.. they get a bloody mouthful As you may have gathered seeing some of my posts on CS.. It is something I feel very very VERY strongly about.

There is no excuse to being allowed to make mistakes in one area while not in another.

for myself, sex is completely different to compassion and empathy........

strike me dead if I ever did anything for the sake of sex....

A mistake is one thing, but knowingly doing something that you know is wrong is a complete other thing.
we are not animals that are driven by instinct.
as humans we have the ability to actually stop and think before doing something.
We can control our sex drive.

I dont mean to be boastful or anything but I really have never had to drop my moral code for the sake of 'sex'........

sex is available anywhere and everywhere for the taking - compassion and empathy and love and understanding are a little more rare..........

I dont mean to be boastful or anything but I really have never had to drop my moral code for the sake of 'sex'........

sex is available anywhere and everywhere for the taking - compassion and empathy and love and understanding are a little more rare..........