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Now could you tell me,please what is WRONG? What does this term include?

Everything is relevant in emotional life of living creatures.


Never say never .... Never says ALWAYS.

wrong is personal to each of us and i'm interested in how that differs in us all. Nvere say never and never say always would lead to a very quite world. do we also not learn from experience and our mistakes?

I like swing dancing!!

in my mind the swinging your talking, about I see as unfaithful and just not right. If you want to be in a relationship or marriage you love and respect the one your wife and dont share "those" things with others. If you want to have "extra" partners dont take a vow of love, faith, and committment. JMO

Tom Dooley didn't think so!!!!

yes ... of course ... some of us do learn. The bravest ones, with their minds and eyes are being wide open to inconsistency of Life itself.

Perhaps I had to be more precise when I said Never say Never and Never say ALWAYS.

What I meant by it ......... Due unknown that lays ahead of us ... we can't make a statements Like Never and Always. Life has a mysterious ways .... we NEVER know.

And wrong is a personal to everyone... true. A lot of factors it is involve. Again we come close to a cultural differences and upbringing. and how emotional intelligence works in different minds.

Well it might be alright if you're a member of a Group of Bonobo.

so can you detatch love and sex if your in a relationship?

For me i dont agree at all with Swinging..JMO

for those wondering i put intiamte encounter as i'm in the air force and nobodys ever interested in relationships with people in the forces

Oh right .. thats couples who are bored with their own sex life? .. and then indulge in partner swopping? or communal orgies?

I have met couples who did that ... none of their relationships seemed to last very long afterwards - something about that behaviour broke them up. Some of them decided to try being Bi-sexual too .... seems if your sex life is so dull, then aint nothing gonna heal it......?.. And then they also found they could not revert back to being "normal" dull with each other again .... so they all have dispersed in different directions.... To find a New partner and settle down all over again.

<did it.....loved it.....

you gotta have faith and trust.......

it's not for everyone......

being with one person forever and always.......that's gonna get BORING...

I'm very open minded and non judgemental and if two people are truely comfortable with it then I see no problem. I have a couple that are quite good friends of mine, they are swingers and also own several swingers clubs in the UK. If you were to meet them you wouldn't think they were into anything like that, they've been together over 20 years and you can see how much they love and respect each other.

For myself... I probably couldn't, my own insecurities would get in the way... why does he want her when he has me... aren't I enough to keep him happy?

heres a question. nearly all guys would want a 3some with 2 women and not with 2 men involved. I assume most women feel opposite and prefer 2 men. this must surely affect the couples involved as one of them is doing something they are not entirely happy with?

One man can't please two women......completely......

One woman...however...can drain two men........

I completely agree with the fact that it is to each their own...I personally do not like to share! I feel like if someone needs to bring in outside help...then maybe I am not with the right person or maybe they are not happy with me!

"Two is company, three is a crowd in bed.." JMO

WRONG!

lol yeah .... partially ........ I would prefer another woman to play with us.

if both agree why not, personally I dont like sharing either.

No, I think you'll find that a lot of women are a bit curiouse about about what if would be like with another woman, and in the situations I've heard about 2 women 1 man, the guy is often on the outside looking in.