is swinging ok?

Konigsberg
Jurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada

Posted: Mar 27, 2008, 12:07 PM CST

jbibiza wrote:

No, I think you'll find that a lot of women are a bit curiouse about about what if would be like with another woman, and in the situations I've heard about 2 women 1 man, the guy is often on the outside looking in.

and Oh! How do they love to watch

every man( if he isn't a gay) who shell say differently is a lier

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Harleyquinn
Betwixt the stix, Illinois USA

Posted: Mar 27, 2008, 12:28 PM CST

Konigsberg wrote:

and Oh! How do they love to watch every man( if he isn't a gay) who shell say differently is a lier

I'd love to! However, not being gay I wouldn't be able to not feel like

"Put me in coach, I'm ready to play!" hahaha

Is it wrong or more likely taboo?

I have friends that have been married for over 30 years and their marriage has survived years of swapping and they're happy together!
The family that plays together.........

Personally I'd be lucky/happy if just one woman( where there's mutual attraction) wanted to be with me!!

And as I always say, to each their own, as long as it doesn't hurt anybody else.

SHANTI

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deex4
offaly, Offaly Ireland

Posted: Mar 27, 2008, 12:31 PM CST

no way i for one couldnt do it

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drivenbysound
Poplar Bluff, Missouri USA

Posted: Mar 27, 2008, 12:52 PM CST

Konigsberg wrote:

I concur ....

The interesting thing about this subject is ... somewhere deep inside everyone wants it ... but there is something that holds their desires back .... Wondering I am what?

We were discussing this idea with my boyfriend and came to a conclusion.

There can be only one obstacle:

What if another SHE will love the size more than her husband or boyfriend?

What if HE will be blown up by sexual abilities of another HER?

Because it matters

Trust and Love must be among the partners.

You have no idea what you are talking about.

You are ONE voice..you can't speak for the masses.

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drivenbysound
Poplar Bluff, Missouri USA

Posted: Mar 27, 2008, 12:55 PM CST

sxc666 wrote:

No. I dont believe its right.

To me, those that like to be involved in sexual liasons such as swinging, tells me a great deal about their character.

These are not people I want to associate with.

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ANurse4U
Memphis, Tennessee USA

Posted: Mar 27, 2008, 1:15 PM CST

Swinging means that you are not fully satisfied with your partner sexually. JMO

If you truly love the one your with, why would you want to "swing"?

And with all the sexually transmitted diseases in this day and time, why would you even consider swinging?

Just curious

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oslojente
Olso, Oslo Norway

Posted: Mar 27, 2008, 1:34 PM CST

Conrad73 wrote:

Tom Dooley didn't think so!!!!

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lusciousmile
Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland

Posted: Mar 27, 2008, 2:15 PM CST

I've been invited to those thingies ;flattered, but have politely declined.

I don't judge anyone who wants to swing, but it just isn't for me. I don't mind being invited just for dinner though.

God forbid anyone to ask that i share my man with them. I guess, i'm just selfish.

Share my man??? >>>>

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morganlee
marmaris, Aegean Turkey

Posted: Mar 30, 2008, 2:54 PM CST

lusciousmile wrote:

I've been invited to those thingies ;flattered, but have politely declined.

I don't judge anyone who wants to swing, but it just isn't for me. I don't mind being invited just for dinner though.
God forbid anyone to ask that i share my man with them. I guess, i'm just selfish. Share my man??? >>>>

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j_goose71
Over there, Ohio USA

Posted: Mar 30, 2008, 2:56 PM CST

bertyboy28 wrote:

I have heard alot about swinging but want to know what most peoples views on it are. Mine are very mixed

I like swing dancing. I took lessons years ago. Now I need a dance partner.

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Hugz_n_Kissez
Someplace, Ontario Canada

Posted: Mar 30, 2008, 2:57 PM CST

Well to tell ya the truth yes I do.....

Tire swings are my fav......

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j_goose71
Over there, Ohio USA

Posted: Mar 30, 2008, 2:57 PM CST

Swinging is just cheating with permission.

One partner for me. I don't share, and I don't compete.

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gorgeous210
Galway, Galway Ireland

Posted: Mar 30, 2008, 2:59 PM CST

j_goose71 wrote:

I like swing dancing. I took lessons years ago. Now I need a dance partner.

Tina might swing dance with you Goosey! (Just a thought)

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Lionhearted1967
London, Ontario Canada

Posted: Mar 30, 2008, 3:00 PM CST

bertyboy28 wrote:

I have heard alot about swinging but want to know what most peoples views on it are. Mine are very mixed

Swings are fun but I prefer the Merry Go Round...

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Tumpa
ottawa, Ontario Canada

Posted: Mar 30, 2008, 3:01 PM CST

lusciousmile wrote:

I've been invited to those thingies ;flattered, but have politely declined.

I don't judge anyone who wants to swing, but it just isn't for me. I don't mind being invited just for dinner though.
God forbid anyone to ask that i share my man with them. I guess, i'm just selfish. Share my man??? >>>>

Swinging is about sex.

My partner is about love and more than just eroticism.

That's all I can say about that......

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roseofsharon
Casa Felice, Southampton, England UK

Posted: Mar 30, 2008, 3:04 PM CST

bertyboy28 wrote:

I have heard alot about swinging but want to know what most peoples views on it are. Mine are very mixed

I'm sure it has its place.... for SOME?? Not for me, I think, but I can't pass judgement on someone just because it doesn't float MY particular boat...??

One thing, it sure as heck would need to be mutually consentual, but it strikes me that it'd be peppered with all sorts of pitfalls....??

Each to his/her own.......

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anjel
tempe, Arizona USA

Posted: Mar 30, 2008, 3:04 PM CST

smoky wrote:

Oh right .. thats couples who are bored with their own sex life? .. and then indulge in partner swopping? or communal orgies?

I have met couples who did that ... none of their relationships seemed to last very long afterwards - something about that behaviour broke them up. Some of them decided to try being Bi-sexual too .... seems if your sex life is so dull, then aint nothing gonna heal it......?.. And then they also found they could not revert back to being "normal" dull with each other again .... so they all have dispersed in different directions.... To find a New partner and settle down all over again.

well put

I say, sounds like a NSA relationship, and if that's the case it may work. But, as for me, im too selective, and private. What we will do behind closed doors, is for me and you, not me, you, her, him, and them....

I enjoy being a pleaser, and if I know that you'd prefer swinging and orgies, we can be friends, but nothing more than that.

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rescuemepleez
clydebank, Scotland UK

Posted: Mar 30, 2008, 3:09 PM CST

dont agree with swinging,it might feel right for some for a bit but it usually destroys relationships..R

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blkm4biwhitef
Nacka, Stockholm Sweden

Posted: Apr 9, 2008, 6:17 AM CST

hell yeah...provided you could communicate and know what you want, as a matter of fact I am not looking for anyone that is not open to it, I can't have a monogamous relationship..variety the say, is the spice of life, swinging doesn't in any way mean that u don't love you partner or bored with him or her as some previous posters have said.

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Conrad73
Lonesome Town Zurich , Zrich Switzerland

Posted: Apr 9, 2008, 7:19 AM CST

blkm4biwhitef wrote:

hell yeah...provided you could communicate and know what you want, as a matter of fact I am not looking for anyone that is not open to it, I can't have a monogamous relationship..variety the say, is the spice of life, swinging doesn't in any way mean that u don't love you partner or bored with him or her as some previous posters have said.

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