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swinging is wonerful
as a matter of fact, my daughter stills remeber when she was a child and we use to go to the park ans swing toghether


as for the other one, the consenting adults that like that life style that is another story

i dont klnow may swingers couples
but all the ones i know, sooner or later (after they started swinging) they split and divorced

again, i dont know a large number as to have a good conclution, but it make me wonder

personally i am seflish
my position is "my wife is mine, i dont share her"

by the way does any one know where my future wife is hiding?

If all the people involved are okay with the situation, then I see nothing wrong with it. It's the sneaking around that gets you in trouble.

I'm not sure what way my pendulum is swinging these days...


Tick...Tock....tick...tock.....

Morally - sure, if all parties consent sans deception.

Psychologically - unlikely, if one's goal is to maintain a stable romantic relationship with another individual. It's difficult enough to maintain such a relationship even without such distractions, but multiple partners introduces a far too complex dynamic to be sustained by most couples - in my opinion. I would expect separation and/or divorce to be highly prevalent among couples who actively engage (don't know this is a fact - simply my provisional belief).

To my way of thinking - if you engage in any activity that may be harmless down the road - sometimes it best to not go there.

Why open the door to mistrust? I have to wonder at the level of commitment in that relationship when people think its ok to have more than one partner ......... isn't that the point of a relationship - making the choice to be with one person and forsaking all others?

I personally would not want to share my partner/husband with another person.

ok here's my view....i've swang..swung...or swing..id...starting out is ok if everyone is the same size but when you throw a big boy in the mix then people (other men) have a problem i can tell you what happens you can't help checking each other out then the one throwing the party gose down bad feelings "BAM NO PUN INTENDED" partys over...it's not wheather your happy with it it's weather you can deal with someone bigger or sexier then the one you brought....

anything two consenting adults do is O.K......or even three.

Meh, it's not for me, but each to their own...