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"Better to love and lost then never loved at all"

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Emanuellla
heaven city Timor-Leste
Posted: Jul 12, 2008, 4:42 AM CST
crystal_2010 wrote:
this is possibly the hardest thing i have ever had to admit, but it's true. i'll give u my story:

about two years ago, after i had finished college my bf and i had decided to get married. in india it works a little differently where we get engaged in front of the family and then have a wedding. we were really in love :-). about a week before the engagement, my bf passed away in a car accident because a few druggies weren't following traffic rules.

point is...i still miss him a lot and with his death died a part of me that i'll never get back. as unfair as that felt, i wudn't trade our time together for anything in this world :-)



oh....that was such a sad story....comfort hug hug hug I am sure ur bf would like to see you thinking more abt ur future...hug teddy bear teddy bear
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crystal_2010
Bangalore India
Posted: Jul 12, 2008, 4:43 AM CST
Emanuellla wrote:
oh....that was such a sad story.... I am sure ur bf would like to see you thinking more abt ur future...



:-) john told me what u told him about me...thanks sweetie.

btw, u r a pretty pretty girl. where are u from?
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Emanuellla
heaven city Timor-Leste
Posted: Jul 12, 2008, 4:46 AM CST
crystal_2010 wrote:
:-) john told me what u told him about me...thanks sweetie.

btw, u r a pretty pretty girl. where are u from?


john is talking too muchlaugh laugh hug i am from eastern europewink hug
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crystal_2010
Bangalore India
Posted: Jul 12, 2008, 4:50 AM CST
Emanuellla wrote:
john is talking too much i am from eastern europe

hahaha....what has he been talking about?

which part of eastern europe?
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kurzita
Xaghra, Gozo Malta
Posted: Jul 12, 2008, 4:51 AM CST
crystal_2010 wrote:
hahaha....what has he been talking about?

which part of eastern europe?


drinking

Well?

Which part of europe?
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massticles
Coeur d'Alene, Idaho USA
Posted: Jul 12, 2008, 4:54 AM CST
Seeing that phrase brings forth searing emotions that only leave me for want of the past. Not the bullshit that has lead me to my present road. That brought too much pain, anger and contempt. Rather would I have the raw emotion and security I felt in love, the beautiful imperfection that it was.

I agree love is never lost. Instead it is tossed aside like a child's play thing when the reality sets in that life is not perfect. Focus wavers to the seemingly unimportant because we live for our own selfish needs.

In the end, when we come back to the beginning, love is no longer an infinite being between two. There is no reciprocation. There is only the want that remains, the need for fulfillment, and the echo of past triumphs.

*sigh*

And yet I realize that I cherished what moments they were that I had. And for the pain and damnation that they have brought to my soul, I would not trade them.
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kurzita
Xaghra, Gozo Malta
Posted: Jul 12, 2008, 4:57 AM CST
Ever so often we need to open the windows wide and let in some fresh air.

Stale air becomes rancid.


yay
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sxc666
Central Coast, New South Wales Australia
Posted: Jul 12, 2008, 5:00 AM CST
kurzita wrote:
Ever so often we need to open the windows wide and let in some fresh air.

Stale air becomes rancid.
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Emanuellla
heaven city Timor-Leste
Posted: Jul 12, 2008, 5:01 AM CST
kurzita wrote:
Well?

Which part of europe?


curiosity has killed the catlaugh giggle

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thewall2
montreal, Quebec Canada
Posted: Jul 12, 2008, 5:10 AM CST
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kurzita
Xaghra, Gozo Malta
Posted: Jul 12, 2008, 5:11 AM CST


bouquet of flowers
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Cary0608
Mandaluyong City, Quezon City Philippines
Posted: Jul 12, 2008, 5:11 AM CST
yes.

i wouldn't want to be the only one not being able to share my story when everyone else is. let's face it, it's unavoidable, we, at one time or another will feel how it is to love, to hurt, to love and be loved...teddy bear
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kurzita
Xaghra, Gozo Malta
Posted: Jul 12, 2008, 5:12 AM CST
Emanuellla wrote:
curiosity has killed the cat


Now yes.....

grin

Considering I have always seen Timor ass your originating country......

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StressFree
small city, Kalmar Sweden
Posted: Jul 12, 2008, 5:47 AM CST
Zeloniy wrote:
Do you think it's true?


Of course silly...what a silly question...fuck fear...yeah..I said it...fuck.fear....go.for.it...nothing.2.loselove smitten devil wink
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thewall2
montreal, Quebec Canada
Posted: Jul 12, 2008, 5:49 AM CST
I don't know,sometimes I WONDER,if I WAS IN LOVE,then why did I fall out of love?


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chrissychick
Charente, Poitou-Charentes France
Posted: Jul 12, 2008, 5:53 AM CST
moonfoxinthesnow wrote:
I personally would have rather never known what it is to love unconditionally. There is not a day that goes by that it doesn't hurt.

I agree I have loved and lost twice now scarey to put you toe in the water a third time
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StressFree
small city, Kalmar Sweden
Posted: Jul 12, 2008, 5:55 AM CST
thewall2 wrote:
I don't know,sometimes I WONDER,if I WAS IN LOVE,then why did I fall out of love?


It's complicated yet simple....mumbling D'oh! grin uh oh! sigh
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ttom500
St. Cloud, Florida USA
Posted: Jul 12, 2008, 5:59 AM CST
How about the saying:

Better to love and won, than to lost and not loved?
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StressFree
small city, Kalmar Sweden
Posted: Jul 12, 2008, 6:07 AM CST
ttom500 wrote:
How about the saying:

Better to love and won, than to lost and not loved?


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alex_192
sarasota USA
Posted: Jul 12, 2008, 6:32 AM CST
ttom500 wrote:
How about the saying:

Better to love and won, than to lost and not loved?


it would be great when we have the power over life

have yu ever thought about ll the widows that had a loving relaitonship

have you ever thught about those that are still young (45)

and what about those that are even younger (25)

at least some knows what love is
some knows that a lifeterm loving relationship is posible

so yes. it is better to love and loose it

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