Posted: Jul 12, 2008, 7:19 AM CST
alex_192 wrote:it would be great when we have the power over life
have yu ever thought about ll the widows that had a loving relaitonship
have you ever thught about those that are still young (45)
and what about those that are even younger (25)
at least some knows what love is
some knows that a lifeterm loving relationship is posible
so yes. it is better to love and loose it
What I am saying. Is the love is not mutually exclusive to winning and be successful in life, today or tomorrow. Just because this life ends with a death, does not mean that you have lost love.
Many will have the pain of a lost love one taken by accident and illness. But that does not make for the exception the love that was shared or that they still do love them. That all ends with death.
Indeed, I suggest, if you read the words (maybe read between the words a little) of the young woman in the post that lost her fiancee
in the tragic car accident. She still loves him today. Is she pained because his passing, of course. But that does not preclude her love
for him.....can go beyond the event of his death.
Also you consider her pain....to be the lose and her injury. I consider her pain to be her depth of love for this young man. Love is always positive even in death.