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sometimes it gets me pulzzled that in i d like to make decission of dating or building relationship.. feel good at beginning about the perfect idea in mind,but vastly difference from your initial imagining.some got me good, some got me upset!especially when dating finished back home..upset in bed so much..what was happened with brain..sick? sphyche?or bad trace in deepmind..whatsort of this thread for me?

morning i don't understand either

I think maybe he is agonizing over taking the next step in a relationship or not? Maybe? And how things aren't always how you think they are going to be?

You mean that sometimes the women you thought were wonderful turned out not to be so good after all?

That some have upset you enough to make you want to stay in bed unhappy?

huh! ya got part ofmy point here,,i m afraid i would fail to build too many relationship from dating or what..suck!whats it with me?

maybe you have just not met the right person yet. I can take time

no the business in bed! i would be upset if she more often make me in bed for that...

Ooops meant 'It can take time ' bloody typo's !

You mean she wasn't as good in bed as you had hoped for?

Yes, I've had that experience too with men though not women

Never mind, better luck next time

Let me see if I get this...

You think you found someone you want to meet. You agree to meet.
You go out with this woman and find she is vastly different from the image you had in mind.
You have sex with the woman.... or try to- this is part is unclear.
After all that, you think it will lead to a relationship but it does not.

Is that what you are trying to say?
Are you trying to understand why relationships are not working out the way you want them to?

(Your answers will determine any further response.)

...or contrarywise! lol

not exactely .thats a little part for that if i had sex with her then do expectation afterward..i never expecate if we are able to continue or not ,it might be upset or a certein trouble on a right way controling..some dating isnot worth doing in fact..itseems i aready figure out what puzzled me then...the moment feeling of lossing some more than gaining i previously imagined...what mind.!sounds silly!

huh!actually i perfer i take the pasitive role when enjoy BED business.but i almost fail to play that majority role when working....

I just had to reply to this:

Nobody is good or bad in bed

Either they match or they don't! We're all individuals!

Glad to meet you...the confusion is all mine.