What caused ya last break up?

lusciousmile
Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland

Posted: Apr 4, 2008, 7:54 PM CST

thewall2 wrote:

Nobody's perfect.

Are you defending the fang guy WALL2?

He sounds evil.

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK

Posted: Apr 4, 2008, 7:54 PM CST

thewall2 wrote:

Nobody's perfect.

haha thats very true

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SmartisSexy
Medina, Ohio USA

Posted: Apr 4, 2008, 7:54 PM CST

Claayer wrote:

Hmm let me seee...

Because he was a violent womanising gambling boozing sexist aggressive unfathomable explosive mind twisting bullying pathological liar .

thats all.

Tell us how you REALLY feel darlin!

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK

Posted: Apr 4, 2008, 7:55 PM CST

lusciousmile wrote:

Are you defending the fang guy WALL2? He sounds evil.

No he was being funny

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lusciousmile
Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland

Posted: Apr 4, 2008, 7:55 PM CST

Claayer wrote:

haha no.. he was Mr McF*ckUp

He's got nothing on my Mc-babe, then.

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK

Posted: Apr 4, 2008, 7:55 PM CST

SmartisSexy wrote:

Tell us how you REALLY feel darlin!

I feel FINE.. it was a lonnnnggg time ago.. I was merely answering the quest-chon.

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK

Posted: Apr 4, 2008, 7:56 PM CST

lusciousmile wrote:

He's got nothing on my Mc-babe, then.

hahaa

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lusciousmile
Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland

Posted: Apr 4, 2008, 7:56 PM CST

SmartisSexy wrote:

Tell us how you REALLY feel darlin!

I think she's bottling up, not good at all.

Claire.

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK

Posted: Apr 4, 2008, 7:59 PM CST

lusciousmile wrote:

I think she's bottling up, not good at all. Claire.

lmao no not at all.. He stays here at my place when he comes down.. (sometimes in my room.. tho not WITH me) and I stay at his (with his GF too) when I go to London. I've been on holiday with him a few times since those days too. We get on pretty well considering.

It does surprise most people that know what happened.. even US. haha

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SmartisSexy
Medina, Ohio USA

Posted: Apr 4, 2008, 8:03 PM CST

Claayer wrote:

I feel FINE.. it was a lonnnnggg time ago.. I was merely answering the quest-chon.

Good! I don't carry anger either....generally that's because I'm the one screwing things up in my relationships. It's hard to stay mad at me for long.

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lusciousmile
Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland

Posted: Apr 4, 2008, 8:05 PM CST

Claayer wrote:

lmao no not at all.. He stays here at my place when he comes down.. (sometimes in my room.. tho not WITH me) and I stay at his (with his GF too) when I go to London. I've been on holiday with him a few times since those days too. We get on pretty well considering.

It does surprise most people that know what happened.. even US. haha

You are a nice person.

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK

Posted: Apr 4, 2008, 8:05 PM CST

SmartisSexy wrote:

Good! I don't carry anger either....generally that's because I'm the one screwing things up in my relationships. It's hard to stay mad at me for long.

Yup.. don't get me wrong.. I WAS mad at him for years.. and wished him every possible death I could think of..

Then one day .. I realised then only person all that hate was hurting was me. As soon as I forgave.. and let it go.. it was like a GINAT weight off my shoulders.. everything moved forward. It was a lonnnggg time agggohh and just part of what makes me ME.

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK

Posted: Apr 4, 2008, 8:06 PM CST

lusciousmile wrote:

You are a nice person.

No... he felt guilty (eventually).. and offered me a LOT of child maintenance.

I is not stooopid.. I can see when is the best time to be nice.

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK

Posted: Apr 4, 2008, 8:07 PM CST

Claayer wrote:

Yup.. don't get me wrong.. I WAS mad at him for years.. and wished him every possible death I could think of..

Then one day .. I realised then only person all that hate was hurting was me . As soon as I forgave.. and let it go.. it was like a GINAT weight off my shoulders.. everything moved forward. It was a lonnnggg time agggohh and just part of what makes me ME.

GIANT*

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thewall2
montreal, Quebec Canada

Posted: Apr 4, 2008, 8:15 PM CST

Claayer wrote:

GIANT *

It's a good thing you learned to forgive......so you can be free......right?

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thewall2
montreal, Quebec Canada

Posted: Apr 4, 2008, 8:23 PM CST

I know when I FORGIVE,IT'S usually for me,so I CAN BE free of the resentment and hurt.

but that's just me.

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thewall2
montreal, Quebec Canada

Posted: Apr 4, 2008, 9:14 PM CST

But seriously,my past serious relationship was a relatioship built on dependency,and not on mutual respect and caring,a relationship that could only bring two people downhill.

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FloraFlora
auckland, Auckland New Zealand

Posted: Apr 4, 2008, 11:34 PM CST

thewall2 wrote:

It's a good thing you learned to forgive......so you can be free......right?

Absolutely, Forgive because you are forgiven.

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