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A True man would never do that.

yea I do count my blessings but it was was really hard on me cause i lost a baby & the fact that I would have never thought a family member would do something like that...

they say blood is thicker than water but i'm finding out that's not always true....

hiy all, not been on here for a while, but hope you are all ok....well, the reason we seperated after 11 years was he was a totally different man to the one i met all those years ago, became cruel, mean, and was a cruel terrible father..and a terrible partner, so bad I had to move quick with child to escape him, and who ever hes with now , i feel for her..
After 4 years free, I have now found ME..and its been a hard treck,,but so glad I did it..Why to people change, weird ah...oh well, im living, and happier than been for years, and just thinking...KARMA..bye..x

He was very controlling and I was not willing to change my whole personality for him when he wasn't willing to concede anything at all.

(He asked me to do things like, never tidy up or clean anything, talk less, always see his point of view, speak more slowly, smile all the time, think a different way, lose weight, grow my hair long, don't ask questions about a subject I was learning, ask before using anything in the house, and he supervised washing up and cooking).

I let him carry on in this vein for 7 months trying to find compromises and discuss things before I left. I have no animosity towards him, after all, he can make the rules for his own life. It just didn't suit me.