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he/she thinks you must get in better "shape"- whether financially, intellectually or phisically!
and then he comes to you at the point he/she thinks best suits him/her, althought he/she always was present in a way, always wanted to make sure you are not totally taken, by asking all the time how is your love life going.

I was just wondering if there is a level of bitchiness, intolerance that we should accept because nobody is perfect...
If someone is a good person, he/she will try to be with you to good and bad times. What if the person is not there for your bad times and is ready to embrace you when all your difficult times are gone? So, to what extent should we accept that failure, which i think it's a matter of a mean strategy!?

Ever experienced such thing? Having to forgive, accept someone who was deliberately being mean to you?

Real friends accept me as I AM, not how they expect me to be. Some offer help and guidance but they remain friends through good or bad.
Sounds like a "fair weather" friend to me. Thier not worth messing with....

I think you're right

As long as they're not forcing opinions down your throat and do it in a concerned and civil manner, then it's all good.


If a man wants to be with you, only when you aren't in the doldrums, then he's not worth being around your hapiness either.

Amen love

Agree if were talking about a man in your life....kick his butt t the curb girl....That one DEFINATLY isnt worth it...

Been through this and am not with him any longer. About 4 yrs ago had a guy I was living with. We dated for a yr then lived together for a yr so was together for 2 yrs total. Well I got really sick. Was in and out of the hospital and couldn't work for about 6 months. Of course couldn't have sex was so sick. Well he sat there and verbally abused me for 2 days then left. Said he didn't want to take care of me and my responsiblities any longer. Then tried to get back with me after I went back to work. Well when I wouldn't answer his phone calls he threatened that he was going to bring in lawyers and sue me for back rent that he paid and money he spent on food while I was out of work. Meanwhile he had lived there and was eating the food he bought. So yea that wasn't going to work. Then found out he moved in with a friend of his with her husband and kids there too. Then found out that he was sleeping with this so called woman friend. Here he is living in this mans house and sleeping with his wife. And meanwhile still trying to get back with me.

Sounds like a "fair weather" friend to me

My very first thought. Applies to all types of friendships, other.

Happy Friday, Happy Friday.

Oh what a mess of a man dear, i'm glad you're out of it!

Yea you and me both!!!

Who said it was my case?

No sorry didn't meant to imply that. I meant that I am glad I am rid of that mess, not you, hon.

you are teaching me to get rid of such mess when it comes across

IF it comes across i meant

Yeah, but I finally realized that I needed to let him go so he could grow. Love is acceptance, not possession. Or an insecure man who needs you to feel small to make himself feel big.

yeah, lots of those that need to feel big on our detriment, they really need that!

gosh, do we need therapy to keep them away from us?

I think i am done giving
my opinions for the day..but wanted to say Have a great weekend bebe..

You mean ou are leaving for the weekend? To the US?

Have a great weekend yourself too baby

really, i love feeling like a baby...
he gotta be taugh