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I guess I'm just of the "never say never" school of thought. I don't plan to ever marry again, and am definitely not seeking marriage, but I am not totally ANTI-marriage, either. So, although I probably won't ever do it again, I haven't totally slammed the door shut and locked all the windows on the idea.
As for loving 100%....is there another level to which you can love someone? If I fall in love again, it will be no less than 100%. What's 80%? 50% 20% even 95%?? This is not love, in my opinion.
Finally, the trust thing.....herein lies the problem. It's difficult to keep putting your heart out there and not be concerned about all the bumps and bruises that it's subjected to in such a vulnerable position.
Let's just say that I do so WANT to trust and love again. But the realist in me kinda doubts that it will happen. I hope that I'm wrong.

as for love and trust I thik that if it isnt 100 % it will create issues.


I think that at some point I will find that right someone and be able to give them 100% and if I do end up getting hurt well.... nothing ventured nothing gained. cant live life protecting yourself or you will miss some of the best life has to offer.


no comment on marrage...... loosing everything once is enough...

Doubtful, very doubtful and frankly I doubt that anyone that has gone through the disappointments of a heartbreak of any kind can truthfully claim they will. I am sure we all want to believe we will again in the future, but part of that earlier experience will always be there so despite the greatness of a new love and relationship, there will be that tiny bit of memory that says "be careful, go slow, avoid the pain".

As we get older we also are less trusting, looking for all the motivations for interrest rather than just accepting that it could happen. And of course, those that are found on the internet are so often from those that have alternative motives, trust is a dangerious commodity.

But still, there is hope. After all, without hope, what would be the purpose???

My heart is always open to loving ... .. nobody can take that away from me...

I agree.. me too.. ur past negative experiences taint ur past.. not a good idea to let them taint ur present and ur future too..

oh yeah