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About last year i started dateing what i thought was the love of my life things were going great we liked each other loved each others componey and every thing. we didnt last for 6 months he broke it off with me on my birthday and now he is dateing somebody else that is way prettier then i was. what is with that me and him could belong together we still laugh at each other alot and enjoy each others componey but now just recentaly he is being a jerk

Well obviously he feels that something wasn't right between you or he wouldn't have broke it off....whatever the reason...he must not have those same feelngs for you or you would still be together...He may want you in his life as a friend and that's it....I would move on and just be friends if you can!!!!!!!!!!

Honey you can hold someones hand but not chain their soul...
Just be you and the right guy will be with you, happiness is some you give not take.
Learn to love you.......

Well Country Girl, saying that men are jerks is like saying that trees are made of wood. It's redundant. Now you want to know what makes men act wishy washy? It's our...uhhhhh....How should I say it? Testosterone, yeah that's it! Our testosterone cause us to do all kind of silly things. I mean, did you ever watch the incredible hulk? Bruce Banner couldn't decide not to turn into a hulking behemoth. It was beyond his control. Same thing with men and testosterone Country Girl.

Listen, if you're looking for the perfect man, forget about it. I'm busy. (kidding) But seriously, you won't find a perfect man. If you get really really lucky, you might find one that's a little better than the rest. Learn to love yourself, by yourself, because of yourself. If you can do that, others cannot help but to love you too. I hope things get better for you.

Thank you i do need the support the last time he came up to see me he kissed me and then told me he felt something and then he totally just ruined it he maybe isnt worth my time friends is all i can have right now i dont feel like dateing for a really long time not after the pain and suffering like that

If he is still dating someone else...then no he isn't worth your time...maybe he was hoping to keep you both on the string!!!!!!!!!

Learn to smile more - all your profile pics are pretty......pretty grim!

Make the most of what you've got...feel good on the inside and then maybe you'll smile more and people will find you beautiful...........

You are NOT ugly but you seem negative; and negativity is unattractive -so CHANGE!

Yea you are right some times being a woman is hard when it comes down to relationships

It's tough for both sides. The right one will come along when you're not looking.

a perfect post for this thread! ........

Oo great post Dio

Sometime you have to date a few before you find the right one. Your still young and have many good dating years ahead of you.....Keep your head up

Yea that was my first and only boy friend i ever had and im only 26 lol

My exhusband and I are still close friends. We were married for almost 15 years together for 17, I thought he was the love of my life too. We still see each other often and still exchanges hugs and deep kisses when we do see each other but only out of friendship and caring. I may have lost my mate but I retained a good friend.

Being a woman is FUN when it comes to relationships. There are many, many boys out there girl....go out and enjoy them. When the right one happens by, you'll know.

It is fun some times until love knocks you right down

I have really learned over the past year that if it doesn't work out, then 1) it wasn't real love (on either part), 2) it wasn't the right person. It's not like you spent 6 years together before he backed out (and even years can be repaired if we keep in mind that it simply wasn't the right person).

It's not pain or misery, it just hurts a bit and then you forget about it (you REALLY do!) and are ready to meet someone else. It's all the process of looking for the RIGHT person.

There isn't just ONE person who we could be happy with. And certainly if this one decided he doesn't want it anymore, then for sure he wasn't THAT person in your life (though it may sure seem like he was).

In between looking for someone, I've found it really helps to learn more about relationships, the opposite sex etc. Some of the knowledge I am learning now, should have been taught way back at shool, but of course it wasn't. Yet without knowledge it's easy to ruin even a really great relationship.

And yes, absolutely one needs to have hobbies of their own and to lead a happy, fulfilled life before one is ready for someone else to come into their life.

Know North Dakotw has a lot of really small tows, how big is the are where you live? What kinds of places do you have to socalize and meet people?

Before you can truly love someone else you have to love yourself first. He is a man and he is using you seems to me. Maybe he wants you on the hook in case he needs a booty call.

If you have respect for yourself you wouldn't put up with men who do that to you.

Be proud of who you are and learn to love yourself more ...and that confidence will show outwardly.

(And Gentleman, you guys say you will never understand us, ditto from this gal to you too. )