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Obviously not with any intent of offence.....

It is unacceptable that the issue of virginity becomes a social imposition on women.

Particularly when there are no such impositions on the male.

It is not virginity that matters in today's society, but equality.

I recently spent three years living in the middle east. I attended islamic university, learnt the Quran, culture and honoured Islamic people with upmost respect...
It sickened me to see men marry virgin young beautiful women just to have sex with them...then dissolve the marriage instantly. Other men would of course not marry them...
Virginity is something that is up to the individual but come-on guys, if you want to impress me with your honourable convictions...then live them yourself...or drag yourself back to your neandathal cave and pull your own hair for a change!!!

Besides..masturbation is better for you...its making love to the only person you love!

Nothing like being tarred with the same brush as everyone else, eh... Not all fellas are like that, some still have morals..

I was answering a previous thread...not tarring you or any other male...I don't pidgeon hole at all..yes some men do have morals

She didn't say everyone. She was talking about the kind she described.

I agree!

Okay, my bad. Sorry

What is virginity?

Aaaaaahhhh yes.

Let's balance this out a bit.

I'm sure we all remember the dark times when chastity belts were the norm in Western society no?

Sooooo.we seem to have advanced quite a bit since then in the West.

Other 'tribes' within the human race are unfortunaately still evolving on this issue.

As to masturbation......

U really saying it is only a male prerogative ?????

In some cultures, the village elders (granny), go into a room with the bride, to 'check' if she has been 'deflowered'. This happens before the groom goes in, to consumate the marriage.

In some other cultures, they make sure the bed sheets are all white and if there are no blood stains 'after' the lovemaking , then the girl is in BIGGGGG trouble.

Well 10 percent of woman admit to it, the other 90 percetn lie.

Something many here, don't have.

"95% of people masturbate...the other 5% don't have hands."

They still do?

We should ask granny, to check things out.

The ultimate kind of rejection?
When you're masturbating, and your hand falls asleep

Particularly with the advent of things like old age arthritis.....

Other side of the coin....

In some past cultures the cult of initiation was adapted as a method of introducing adoloscents to sexual behaviour.

'Chosen' adults were allocated to carry out such initiation. Those chosen were responsible adults within that clan, normally associated with the higher positions of 'power' within the same.

Yes American Indians..the elder women were chosen to teach a young buck the art of making love properly for his new to be bride...

I prefer to go it alone...thanks very much...