[b]DOES VIRGINITY REALLY MATTERS IN TODAYS WORLD?[/b]

kurzita
Xaghra, Gozo Malta

Posted: Apr 11, 2008, 5:29 AM CST

Zarah wrote:

Yes American Indians..the elder women were chosen to teach a young buck the art of making love properly for his new to be bride...

I prefer to go it alone...thanks very much...

Didn't have much choice then I admit

Still remember quite clearly thou......

And once there, never looked back

Still enjoy learning more on the matter

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Indyfella
indianapolis, Indiana USA

Posted: Apr 11, 2008, 5:31 AM CST

Zarah wrote:

"95% of people masturbate...the other 5% don't have hands."

Don't be picking on victims of handlessness.

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Zarah
dublin, Dublin Ireland

Posted: Apr 11, 2008, 5:38 AM CST

Indyfella wrote:

Don't be picking on victims of handlessness.

Sorry...I know they're armless..sorry...harmless

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funnyjames
Hyderabad India

Posted: Apr 11, 2008, 5:38 AM CST

I Object.........

I still have it.......

Don ask me whats it?

lusciousmile wrote:

Something many here, don't have.

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Indyfella
indianapolis, Indiana USA

Posted: Apr 11, 2008, 5:40 AM CST

Zarah wrote:

Sorry...I know they're armless..sorry...harmless

May pay to have friends

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kurzita
Xaghra, Gozo Malta

Posted: Apr 11, 2008, 5:42 AM CST

Zarah wrote:

Sorry...I know they're armless..sorry...harmless

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gopi59
limassol, Limassol Cyprus

Posted: Apr 11, 2008, 5:54 AM CST

Zellarrone1 wrote:

That's what I meant to say, but you say it so much nicer and clearer than what I did

Thank you dear! :-))

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gopi59
limassol, Limassol Cyprus

Posted: Apr 11, 2008, 5:55 AM CST

Indyfella wrote:

Don't be picking on victims of handlessness.

i disagree, the other 5% are liars :-))

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indienartz
Close to your heart India

Posted: Apr 11, 2008, 9:58 AM CST

Zarah wrote:

I recently spent three years living in the middle east. I attended islamic university, learnt the Quran, culture and honoured Islamic people with upmost respect...
It sickened me to see men marry virgin young beautiful women just to have sex with them...then dissolve the marriage instantly. Other men would of course not marry them...
Virginity is something that is up to the individual but come-on guys, if you want to impress me with your honourable convictions...then live them yourself...or drag yourself back to your neandathal cave and pull your own hair for a change!!!

Besides..masturbation is better for you...its making love to the only person you love!

.

Well i totally agree to your view that this amounts to voilation of basic human rights of females who are just used as material things. But it is also equally true that those cultures which demand virginity to be carried till mairrage only for females need to change. We can't have double standards in this world-one set of rules for females and one set of rules for males- It just cant work and is unacceptable.
I feel your generalisation for males is also not true. And who said that females cant masturbate and make love only to their dream guy!!! ? It is equally applicable to them too. ( What do you say guys?? )

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK

Posted: Apr 11, 2008, 10:01 AM CST

Zarah wrote:

The ultimate kind of rejection?
When you're masturbating, and your hand falls asleep

hahaha

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emc_eile
galway, Galway Ireland

Posted: Apr 11, 2008, 10:07 AM CST

lusciousmile wrote:

Oh Zell, you don't want a virgin man? Think about it.

I'm definitely with you on that one!!!

a lot to be said for experience on both sides!!! WAY more fun

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lusciousmile
Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland

Posted: Apr 11, 2008, 10:41 AM CST

emc_eile wrote:

I'm definitely with you on that one!!! a lot to be said for experience on both sides!!! WAY more fun

I would hate to baby sit, in bed.

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whispah
pahrump, Nevada USA

Posted: Apr 11, 2008, 10:56 AM CST

What the heck? Saving yourself for marriage? WHY? lol

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lusciousmile
Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland

Posted: Apr 11, 2008, 11:01 AM CST

whispah wrote:

What the heck? Saving yourself for marriage? WHY? lol

I heard there's a prize for that.

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StressFree
small city, Kalmar Sweden

Posted: Apr 11, 2008, 12:10 PM CST

indienartz wrote:

So in this modern world does being virgin really matters? Or it is of no relaevance whether one has slept with someone else before mairrage?

This just in....2008 not 1958....

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kurzita
Xaghra, Gozo Malta

Posted: Apr 11, 2008, 12:16 PM CST

lusciousmile wrote:

I would hate to baby sit, in bed.

It can be surprisingly enjoyable

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BeautifulEri
Guadalajara, Jalisco Mexico

Posted: Apr 11, 2008, 12:19 PM CST

In Mexico many women stay virgin, yes, yes....they do...and yes, some just SAY they do...hahhaa.....

Men who marry virgin women feel like they won a prize or something, only to divorce soon after...

I think intimacy is really important in a relationship, and keeping yourself for THAT special someone? Yeah right....

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StressFree
small city, Kalmar Sweden

Posted: Apr 11, 2008, 12:25 PM CST

BeautifulEri wrote:

In Mexico many women stay virgin, yes, yes....they do...and yes, some just SAY they do...hahhaa.....

Men who marry virgin women feel like they won a prize or something, only to divorce soon after...

I think intimacy is really important in a relationship, and keeping yourself for THAT special someone? Yeah right....

What is the divorce rate in Mexico? I thought divorce is extremely rare there? I never knew any Mexican-American families that were divorced in California.

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BeautifulEri
Guadalajara, Jalisco Mexico

Posted: Apr 11, 2008, 12:41 PM CST

StressFree wrote:

What is the divorce rate in Mexico? I thought divorce is extremely rare there? I never knew any Mexican-American families that were divorced in California.

I'm not sure about the rate...and...well...how can I put it...people with not much education stay married, inspite of abuse, cheating and stuff, but people well educated are divorced....cause Mexico is one of the countries that has more infidelity and abuse rates in the world.

Not proud of THAT part of my culture, but mexico has a lot more to give and talk about...

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kurzita
Xaghra, Gozo Malta

Posted: Apr 11, 2008, 12:53 PM CST

BeautifulEri wrote:

In Mexico many women stay virgin, yes, yes....they do...and yes, some just SAY they do...hahhaa.....

Men who marry virgin women feel like they won a prize or something, only to divorce soon after...

I think intimacy is really important in a relationship, and keeping yourself for THAT special someone? Yeah right....

I've actually put this down earlier I think.....

Had the pleasant experience of being first to a beautiful lady. Albeit unknowingly. Never imagined a 26 year old, a very intelligent one at that, would be a virgin in the first place.

But it happenned. An know what?

It left me with the feeling of having been given a very precious gift.

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