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[b]DOES VIRGINITY REALLY MATTERS IN TODAYS WORLD?[/b]

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[b]DOES VIRGINITY REALLY MATTERS IN TODAYS WORLD?[/b]

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Aries01
Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Posted: Apr 11, 2008, 12:57 PM CST
indienartz wrote:
The outrage against actress Khushboo's remarks on premarital sex continues. But is remaining a virgin till marriage such a big deal these days?

IF you're 19-years-old, odds that you're a virgin are pretty low. Even recent studies have indicated that's the average age of losing one's virginity.

So why is it that when actress Khushboo reacted to a poll on premarital sex by saying, "No educated man will expect the woman he marries to be a virgin," and director Suhasini Manirathnam supported her views, some groups went berserk?

So in this modern world does being virgin really matters? Or it is of no relaevance whether one has slept with someone else before mairrage?


Pre-marital virginity was something that was much easier to comply with in an age where people married very young and youths were not so sexualised by the media and popular culture. I think it would be very hard to find a virgin in present day western society.. I respect and admire anyone that can wait.. but it is becoming less and less likely... in most developed countries... couple are not marrying until late 20's / 30's...

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StressFree
small city, Kalmar Sweden
Posted: Apr 11, 2008, 1:15 PM CST
BeautifulEri wrote:
I'm not sure about the rate...


I can find out....search is my friend on google.
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StressFree
small city, Kalmar Sweden
Posted: Apr 11, 2008, 1:20 PM CST
StressFree wrote:
I can find out....search is my friend on google.


World Top 10 - Countries With Lowest Divorce Rate
Country Divorce Rate Per 1000
Libya 0.24
Georgia 0.36
Mongolia 0.38
Armenia 0.42
Chile 0.42
Italy 0.47
Mexico 0.48
El Salvador 0.49
Macedonia 0.51
Turkey 0.51

Source: http://www.mapsofworld.com/world-top-ten/countries-with-lowest-divorce-rate.html
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BeautifulEri
Guadalajara, Jalisco Mexico
Posted: Apr 11, 2008, 1:21 PM CST
StressFree wrote:
World Top 10 - Countries With Lowest Divorce Rate
Country Divorce Rate Per 1000
Libya 0.24
Georgia 0.36
Mongolia 0.38
Armenia 0.42
Chile 0.42
Italy 0.47
Mexico 0.48
El Salvador 0.49
Macedonia 0.51
Turkey 0.51

Source: http://www.mapsofworld.com/world-top-ten/countries-with-lowest-divorce-rate.html


Hahhahaha...hope is for the right reaons....

day dream Dreaming of a certain pic I like...
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lusciousmile
Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
Posted: Apr 11, 2008, 1:40 PM CST
BeautifulEri wrote:
I'm not sure about the rate...and...well...how can I put it...people with not much education stay married, inspite of abuse, cheating and stuff, but people well educated are divorced....cause Mexico is one of the countries that has more infidelity and abuse rates in the world.

Not proud of THAT part of my culture, but mexico has a lot more to give and talk about...



Perfect description of Kenya. sigh
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CapeDoctor
Greystones, Wicklow Ireland
Posted: Apr 11, 2008, 2:02 PM CST
Mmmmm, well for me there's just something special about being the first guy to give a lady that's experience - I was only so fortunate once though...

It wouldn't really matter to me when looking for my ideal partner - but needless to say I think most men would agree there's nothing quite like being the first! It's like being the first skier down a slope of freshl snow, like taking the first scoop out the ice-cream tub...

Experience is not that important for guys, and there's nothing like something that's brand new grin
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Aries01
Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Posted: Apr 11, 2008, 2:13 PM CST
CapeDoctor wrote:
Mmmmm, well for me there's just something special about being the first guy to give a lady that's experience - I was only so fortunate once though...

It wouldn't really matter to me when looking for my ideal partner - but needless to say I think most men would agree there's nothing quite like being the first! It's like being the first skier down a slope of freshl snow, like taking the first scoop out the ice-cream tub...

Experience is not that important for guys, and there's nothing like something that's brand new


That sounds very like wanting ur cake and eating itlaugh... you would like a fresh new virgin.. but do all ye can to be the first..laugh
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CapeDoctor
Greystones, Wicklow Ireland
Posted: Apr 11, 2008, 2:29 PM CST
Aries01 wrote:
That sounds very like wanting ur cake and eating it... you would like a fresh new virgin.. but do all ye can to be the first..



Yeah I know it's like having your cake and eating it lol laugh
Doesn't mean a guy can't dream about it though...

But I am a realist - I would never consider that's a girl's less attractive to me if she wasn't a virgin!

Statistically speaking - if there are as many women on this planet as men, then a guy could only expect to take a one women's virginity - if's he's taken any more then he's part of a very elite club!!!
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nasim73
Karachi, Sindh Pakistan
Posted: Apr 12, 2008, 4:55 AM CST


Dear Madam,


Same standard for both, i think u never read saw culture of Pakistan, here do sex before marry a big sin and also illeagle.

Y u r insis these type sin, its your culture ok . u can proud your culture , i fell happy my culture and religion , becoz the give education respect of female.

In your culture female use only thing.
Can u found any girl in your culture who virgin before marry , or any boy who never sex before marry.
and another main thing , in your society mostly marragie unscecssful . No any family system no family values
every person indepndet
At least in your sociect fond Incest.

One thing if any person do before marry here in Pakistan , so its indivual , not feel proud , fell shy, and
in your society mostly people do this work and tell many perons proudly male and female.

Sorry if fell bad my some words , buts its all truth.
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nasim73
Karachi, Sindh Pakistan
Posted: Apr 12, 2008, 4:58 AM CST
Dear Madam,


Same standard for both, i think u never read saw culture of Pakistan, here do sex before marry a big sin and also illeagle.

Y u r insis these type sin, its your culture ok . u can proud your culture , i fell happy my culture and religion , becoz the give education respect of female.

In your culture female use only thing.
Can u found any girl in your culture who virgin before marry , or any boy who never sex before marry.
and another main thing , in your society mostly marragie unscecssful . No any family system no family values
every person indepndet
At least in your sociect fond Incest.

One thing if any person do before marry here in Pakistan , so its indivual , not feel proud , fell shy, and
in your society mostly people do this work and tell many perons proudly male and female.

Sorry if fell bad my some words , buts its all truth.
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morganlee
Qawra, Majjistral Malta
Posted: Apr 12, 2008, 5:06 AM CST
nasim73 wrote:
Dear Madam,Same standard for both, i think u never read saw culture of Pakistan, here do sex before marry a big sin and also illeagle.

Y u r insis these type sin, its your culture ok . u can proud your culture , i fell happy my culture and religion , becoz the give education respect of female.

In your culture female use only thing.
Can u found any girl in your culture who virgin before marry , or any boy who never sex before marry.
and another main thing , in your society mostly marragie unscecssful . No any family system no family values
every person indepndet
At least in your sociect fond Incest.

One thing if any person do before marry here in Pakistan , so its indivual , not feel proud , fell shy, and
in your society mostly people do this work and tell many perons proudly male and female.

Sorry if fell bad my some words , buts its all truth.
confused who is this post to ???
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morganlee
Qawra, Majjistral Malta
Posted: Apr 12, 2008, 5:10 AM CST
nasim73 wrote:
Dear Madam,Same standard for both, i think u never read saw culture of Pakistan, here do sex before marry a big sin and also illeagle.

Y u r insis these type sin, its your culture ok . u can proud your culture , i fell happy my culture and religion , becoz the give education respect of female.

In your culture female use only thing.
Can u found any girl in your culture who virgin before marry , or any boy who never sex before marry.
and another main thing , in your society mostly marragie unscecssful . No any family system no family values
every person indepndet
At least in your sociect fond Incest.

One thing if any person do before marry here in Pakistan , so its indivual , not feel proud , fell shy, and
in your society mostly people do this work and tell many perons proudly male and female.

Sorry if fell bad my some words , buts its all truth.
It is good you are proud of your culture and i respect that but i don't think anyone has the right to judge another culture, and say it is all true. that is only your opinion
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jimbhoy
In Glasgow, Dublin Ireland
Posted: Apr 12, 2008, 5:11 AM CST
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<<<<<<<<<Born again virgin who's on GURwink wink rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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morganlee
Qawra, Majjistral Malta
Posted: Apr 12, 2008, 5:11 AM CST
jimbhoy wrote:
<<<<<<<<<
<<<<<<<<<Born again virgin who's on GUR
Hi jim cheers
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nuala
dublin, Dublin Ireland
Posted: Apr 12, 2008, 5:12 AM CST
morganlee wrote:
Hi jim


hi morgan wine wave
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morganlee
Qawra, Majjistral Malta
Posted: Apr 12, 2008, 5:13 AM CST
nuala wrote:
hi morgan
Helloooo wine hug hope you ok?
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PingPong
Astana Kazakhstan
Posted: Apr 12, 2008, 5:17 AM CST
Well, of course, this is the matter of culture, upbringing and individuality and values of the person.
I personally think it will be so beautiful to open up that mystery in the first night of marriage with the man who you trust 100% and who deserves your love (since you decided to marry this person) and
your sincerity. To make love to someone is to give a piece of your soul to this person. Or at least why not have 'it' with the right person who will not trample down your feelings and who's not a one-night-stand type.
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nasim73
Karachi, Sindh Pakistan
Posted: Apr 12, 2008, 5:23 AM CST
Dear Madam,

I think u donot understand my thinking. we wanna give respect of women.

Tell do u like your sis or daughtr loes her virginty before marry,
and do sex many person in life.

Its not human habit, its habit of ------------
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morganlee
Qawra, Majjistral Malta
Posted: Apr 12, 2008, 5:25 AM CST
nasim73 wrote:
Dear Madam,

I think u donot understand my thinking. we wanna give respect of women.

Tell do u like your sis or daughtr loes her virginty before marry,
and do sex many person in life.

Its not human habit, its habit of ------------
please can you click quote on the post you are answering, we don't know who you are talking to .
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nasim73
Karachi, Sindh Pakistan
Posted: Apr 12, 2008, 5:25 AM CST

Dear Ping pong

i am agree with your post.
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