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[b]DOES VIRGINITY REALLY MATTERS IN TODAYS WORLD?[/b]

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[b]DOES VIRGINITY REALLY MATTERS IN TODAYS WORLD?[/b]




lusciousmile
Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
Posted: Apr 12, 2008, 9:13 AM CST
indienartz wrote:
Well i don't seem to agree with this gentleman. Firstly his remarks of wetern culture of premarital sex and failing relationships has no relavance in general. What may be right for one may not be other. To remain virgin till mairrage may be requirement or a merit for people in one culture but may be irrelavant in others. He speaks of sham on western culture but he should see in his own country and culture- women repression, honour killing, forced mairrage and divorces, no fundamental rights for females and dismal women representation in all aspects of society. All i want to say that it is easy to point fingers to others failing to realise that other three fingers points to ourselves.
After all this disscussions and going through the different opinions i strongly feel that virginity is personal choice and its importance lies in the person itself and the society. If the person is not guilty of losing virginity before mairrage than it is absolutely fine. No body should be discriminated on this issue.



I thought the same of his post. If someone said the same things about his culture, i'm sure it would be labelled as prejudice by some. One doesn't have to put down the western culture to support theirs. He can mainly, outline the good of his own.

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indienartz
Close to your heart India
Posted: Apr 12, 2008, 9:21 AM CST
lusciousmile wrote:
I thought the same of his post. If someone said the same things about his culture, i'm sure it would be labelled as prejudice by some. One doesn't have to put down the western culture to support theirs. He can mainly, outline the good of his own.

Nice post!


Thanx for the comment!!!
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nasim73
Karachi, Sindh Pakistan
Posted: Apr 14, 2008, 6:32 AM CST
indienartz wrote:
Well i don't seem to agree with this gentleman. Firstly his remarks of wetern culture of premarital sex and failing relationships has no relavance in general. What may be right for one may not be other. To remain virgin till mairrage may be requirement or a merit for people in one culture but may be irrelavant in others. He speaks of sham on western culture but he should see in his own country and culture- women repression, honour killing, forced mairrage and divorces, no fundamental rights for females and dismal women representation in all aspects of society. All i want to say that it is easy to point fingers to others failing to realise that other three fingers points to ourselves.

After all this disscussions and going through the different opinions i strongly feel that virginity is personal choice and its importance lies in the person itself and the society. If the person is not guilty of losing virginity before mairrage than it is absolutely fine. No body should be discriminated on this issue.



Dear Sir,

i am agree here in pakistan honour killing, focred marraige but in very limited area of paksitan. and our people doesnot like these things.

For your kind information our national assembly speaker a woman, and may women members of national assembly and provisional assembly , ministers and othe post.

its not fear u talk only eneducated areas of pakistan.

U know very well in your country also mostly women do sex after marry expcet call girls.
One thing u ignore , i accpect honour killing, forced here in pakistan but no any educated people like it. But u all educated people like sex before marry.



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constanza
Los Angeles, California USA
Posted: Apr 14, 2008, 6:38 AM CST
nasim73 wrote:
Dear Sir,

i am agree here in pakistan honour killing, focred marraige but in very limited area of paksitan. and our people doesnot like these things.

For your kind information our national assembly speaker a woman, and may women members of national assembly and provisional assembly , ministers and othe post.

its not fear u talk only eneducated areas of pakistan.

U know very well in your country also mostly women do sex after marry expcet call girls.
One thing u ignore , i accpect honour killing, forced here in pakistan but no any educated people like it. But u all educated people like sex before marry.



Virginity does not define the woman, unless you are very simplistic and limited; people are defined by their character, and by definition a virgin is innocent, has yet to become a woman. Would man rather have a virgin who ends up detesting him, or a woman who has lived her own life, just as any other man out there, and who loves him for him?
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Zarah
dublin, Dublin Ireland
Posted: Apr 14, 2008, 6:42 AM CST
nasim73 wrote:
Dear Sir,

i am agree here in pakistan honour killing, focred marraige but in very limited area of paksitan. and our people doesnot like these things.

For your kind information our national assembly speaker a woman, and may women members of national assembly and provisional assembly , ministers and othe post.

its not fear u talk only eneducated areas of pakistan.

U know very well in your country also mostly women do sex after marry expcet call girls.
One thing u ignore , i accpect honour killing, forced here in pakistan but no any educated people like it. But u all educated people like sex before marry.


Being educated has nothing to do with liking or peforming sex before marriage..some do..some don't ...educated or uneducated.

I class myself as educated and my sexual decisions are not determined by my career or lack of...
Never pidgeon hole western people as educated and other countries as not...I have spent enough time in the middle east, Africa and poorer nations to realise this simply not to be true.
I think you lack information about other countries and cultures therefore your perceptions are limited...some of us 'westerners' are actually educated in your country and culture..I studied islamic practices at a Saudi University for three years...we are not all sexually deviant here you know!
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constanza
Los Angeles, California USA
Posted: Apr 14, 2008, 6:44 AM CST
nasim73 wrote:
Dear Sir,

i am agree here in pakistan honour killing, focred marraige but in very limited area of paksitan. and our people doesnot like these things.

For your kind information our national assembly speaker a woman, and may women members of national assembly and provisional assembly , ministers and othe post.

its not fear u talk only eneducated areas of pakistan.

U know very well in your country also mostly women do sex after marry expcet call girls.
One thing u ignore , i accpect honour killing, forced here in pakistan but no any educated people like it. But u all educated people like sex before marry.



Btw,....barfing ...there is nothing honorable about killing a woman; I have no doubt God himself is apalled and your nations damned for it.
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Zarah
dublin, Dublin Ireland
Posted: Apr 14, 2008, 6:54 AM CST
constanza wrote:
Btw,.... ...there is nothing honorable about killing a woman; I have no doubt God himself is apalled and your nations damned for it.

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Exactly...
You would throw hot boiling oil over a woman that is suspected of being unchaste..have family members stone her to death...or torture and subject women to inhumane treatment...

Wa'Lahi..Allah have mercy..
These are barbaric cultural mentalities embedded through generations...Nothing to do with your religion...I find it nowhere in any holy book..
Your suffering is your own ignorance
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StressFree
small city, Kalmar Sweden
Posted: Apr 14, 2008, 7:06 AM CST
wow...this thread is very interesting to see the thoughts from other people in lands and realities....far...far away from mine...funny how the conformed robots can seem even more suffocated in their cruel paradigms outside of Europe/America...
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lusciousmile
Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
Posted: Apr 14, 2008, 7:35 AM CST
nasim73 wrote:
Dear Sir,

i am agree here in pakistan honour killing, focred marraige but in very limited area of paksitan. and our people doesnot like these things.

For your kind information our national assembly speaker a woman, and may women members of national assembly and provisional assembly , ministers and othe post.

its not fear u talk only eneducated areas of pakistan.

U know very well in your country also mostly women do sex after marry expcet call girls.
One thing u ignore , i accpect honour killing, forced here in pakistan but no any educated people like it. But u all educated people like sex before marry.



Yet, you stick around, on a dating site with probably none of the kind, you would prefer! Not very clever!!


D'oh! frustrated
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