Posted: Apr 12, 2008, 9:13 AM CST
indienartz wrote:Well i don't seem to agree with this gentleman. Firstly his remarks of wetern culture of premarital sex and failing relationships has no relavance in general. What may be right for one may not be other. To remain virgin till mairrage may be requirement or a merit for people in one culture but may be irrelavant in others. He speaks of sham on western culture but he should see in his own country and culture- women repression, honour killing, forced mairrage and divorces, no fundamental rights for females and dismal women representation in all aspects of society. All i want to say that it is easy to point fingers to others failing to realise that other three fingers points to ourselves.
After all this disscussions and going through the different opinions i strongly feel that virginity is personal choice and its importance lies in the person itself and the society. If the person is not guilty of losing virginity before mairrage than it is absolutely fine. No body should be discriminated on this issue.
I thought the same of his post. If someone said the same things about his culture, i'm sure it would be labelled as prejudice by some. One doesn't have to put down the western culture to support theirs. He can mainly, outline the good of his own.
Nice post!