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Thank You for your reply. I can deal, (And Have Dealt), with being a Musician AND a "Significant Other" Simultaneously as well. Moderation is similar to Complacency. If You are going to do anything as a CAREER, Do It All the Way OR.......


Do it as a "Hobby". Nothing wrong with that. Music can be enjoyable at ANY Level. For me, Music Is My Life, Which Makes Me The Extreme Exception to the Rule. Again, Thanks For Your Reply.


My Ex-Wife, (Just ONE), was not a professional Musician, But always WISHED, (Like Most "Wishers") that she didn't quit her Piano Lessons.

Is it also the cause of your aggression? Just wondering.

.. genetically I couldn't escape my love of music if I wanted to.. my brothers, sisters, uncles, aunts, cousins (more than one generation) on BOTH sides of the family are musical... I am the only one who CANT play an instrument though ... though I do like to sing...

Ever hear of the 'Clancy Brothers' my grand uncles... they were fairly big in America in the 60's 70's and although most have passed.. Liam Clancy is still going strong at 72

On the Contrary. Music is My Reward.


Pet Your Dogs and Relax.

The Clancy Name is DEFINITELY Familiar. I wish I could Sing. I am the Ultimate Musical Irony. I couldn't sing to save my life, YET........


I was Born with Perfect Pitch. My Teacher discovered this God Given gift When I was 7. Double Edged Sword however. I learn songs easier by simply listening, (The Good Part), But My Sight Reading is Absolutely Non-Existent. I'll take a Good Ear over Sight Reading Any Day Though.

I would prefer to be quoted ENTIRELY, Not "Out of Context"

Yes having a good ear is more organic.. so it allows for more creativity and individual expression.. if you approach music clinically and mathematically..u will get a clinical and mathematical result.. all the best musicians have the ear

If the magician could pull a rabbit out of the hat~

I've been playing guitar now for 30yrs, self taught by ear. Before I could play music I would hear it all the time, the more I learnt the less I heard the music in my head. I can now do wateva I like on a guitar but no longer hear the music. Has anyone had this prob and what did you do to get over it.

i was in a band for 2 years where we gigged like 3 and sometimes 4 nights a week aswell as holding a day job... i had about 3 relationships in them 2 years and not one of them lasted over 2 months, she would always end up giving me the ultimatum of her or the band...

Being a musician myself, I’ve understood by now, that my partner has to be a musician also. “We” understand each other. Other people have difficulty understanding “us”

dated a flutist for a while, I guess I was more interested in her playing the mouth organ

musicians have RHYTHM (nuff said)

Yes I 'dated' a famous muscian according to life and holywood...no names but by God! he was awesome....sorry...Bono....

I would and will because the music will keep me entertained.

i would NOT

Obviously, some Ariens are more easy to entertain than others

.............:popcorn2
quite entertained right now.....

That's because I'm doing my fiddling and performing at the same time

zell is that meant to be 'naughty'



well i made a living over 20 yrs playing music

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