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Ma'am, this is not your dung, move along please

Carry on.

I have been in a weekend relationship for 10yrs and believe me, in the end it really gets too much!!

We arrived at an impass whereby i wanted her to move to the Netherlands and she wanted to stay in Belgium so really, love has to be the deciding factor!!

Its a shame it didnt work in the end but at least we tried - and so i would say to anyone wanting a long distance relationship to think about the complications first but certainly, follow your heart in the end!!

Its worth it!

Good advice, I always think of the complications first... If I'm smitten with someone from far away, I think realistically we could possibly meet even if it meant going without food for a year or getting into debt to fund it. But, then I think of all the what if's ... such as what if we fell madly in lustfull love and didn't get to see each other for months or years. Or what if he wanted me to go live there and how I'd cope with being in a different country to my son and my friends Maybe, my thoughts on this will change in time though

I could have loved you...


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Ever have that felling you are being stalked?

you or me?

You're complaining of distance? I will not date men from here. We bore each other to death (cultural differences and all), and i do not intend to settle down and live here, later in life.

I believe everyone knows the answer to what it is they SHOULD do about romancing someone they care about. The only things to consider are your fears areound financial, social and environmental issues and those things no one can help you with. Wish you all the luck in the world with your decisions though.

Yes, distance can be an issue and it does suck. There are a few people here I would like to meet but I can't just drive over for a coffee whenever I feel like it.

Yeah it sucks.. u can really get to like people on this place and ironically it is the people from places like America or India..or the other bloody side of the planet ..

Any body that I would want to have for dinner on this site.. would have to take a trans atlantic flight

Yeah, with those distances a person may as well stay for breakfast too.

This thread sheds some bright light on the unsexy downside with CS....the women I am interested in are not even remotely close to where I live....none of which are Swedish....hopefully in the future teleportation will be as common as the internet....that would surely elevate the realistic potential for CS...soooo I guess I am officially here only for the forums and pen pals....

Teleportation!

How awesome would that be though! It would save a lot of time and energy in pursuit of real love....hopefully money as well...but I'm sure some capitalistic whore would find a way to bleed our pockets....

have your tried getting a bigger monitor.

You wanted ideas.....I didn't know you meant good ideas!