Thread:

WILL SOMEBODY REMIND ME WHAT 'BEING IN LOVE' MEANS ? AND HOW IT AFFECTS YOU ? CAN YOU STILL SEE BAD

Category:
Dating & Relating

WILL SOMEBODY REMIND ME WHAT 'BEING IN LOVE' MEANS ? AND HOW IT AFFECTS YOU ? CAN YOU STILL SEE BAD

England dating
gillyloves69
london, Outer London, England UK
Posted: Apr 12, 2008, 9:16 AM CST
THINGS ABOUT A PERSON WHEN ' YOU'RE IN LOVE ' OR CAN YOU SEE CLEARLY ALL THE WAY !

rolling eyes crying head banger

ARE YOU ' QUALIFIED ' TO FALL IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE ? OR SIMPLY A MENACE TO SOCIETY ?

conversing
Is this post offensive? If so, Report this post »
Minnesota singles
Ashley173
Madelia, Minnesota USA
Posted: Apr 12, 2008, 9:37 AM CST
gillyloves69 wrote:
THINGS ABOUT A PERSON WHEN ' YOU'RE IN LOVE ' OR CAN YOU SEE CLEARLY ALL THE WAY !



ARE YOU ' QUALIFIED ' TO FALL IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE ? OR SIMPLY A MENACE TO SOCIETY ?


I'm a menace to society I always have been. I thought I was in love but obviously not. Oh well. I think if you're truly in love you can see the bad but you love them anyways because you know everyone has faults even the one you love and you move on. As long as the faults aren't hurting you or others and you can see past them then you are in love. You need to love someone for everything they are instead of hating them for everything they aren't.dancing
Is this post offensive? If so, Report this post »



constanza
Los Angeles, California USA
Posted: Apr 12, 2008, 9:42 AM CST
gillyloves69 wrote:
THINGS ABOUT A PERSON WHEN ' YOU'RE IN LOVE ' OR CAN YOU SEE CLEARLY ALL THE WAY !



ARE YOU ' QUALIFIED ' TO FALL IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE ? OR SIMPLY A MENACE TO SOCIETY ?



Whether or not we are "qualified" to fall in love .......dunno it would have never occurred to me.....but we see the casualties of love everywhere all the time, including here.....laugh
Is this post offensive? If so, Report this post »
US personals
lovestrees
Tacoma area, Washington USA
Posted: Apr 12, 2008, 12:12 PM CST
constanza wrote:
Whether or not we are "qualified" to fall in love ....... it would have never occurred to me.....but we see the casualties of love everywhere all the time, including here.....


How about "willing and able?"

Was watching "The Office" sitcom the other night where we see into the twisted relationship the lead charactor is involved with...

HOLY SHEET, and WOW!

Reminded me of some of my earlier attempts at a loving relationship.

Like: anyone can get a plane to fly off the ground, just floor the throttle and it will take off... easy, BUT! If you haven't mastered LANDINGS, well, you know.

Relationships were the same for me, easy to start... then, the inevitable, CRASH AND BURN!

Just wasn't ABLE, was willing, yearning, wanting, yes... able, not so much!
Is this post offensive? If so, Report this post »



constanza
Los Angeles, California USA
Posted: Apr 12, 2008, 12:18 PM CST
lovestrees wrote:
How about "willing and able?"

Was watching "The Office" sitcom the other night where we see into the twisted relationship the lead charactor is involved with...

HOLY SHEET, and WOW!

Reminded me of some of my earlier attempts at a loving relationship.

Like: anyone can get a plane to fly off the ground, just floor the throttle and it will take off... easy, BUT! If you haven't mastered LANDINGS, well, you know.

Relationships were the same for me, easy to start... then, the inevitable, CRASH AND BURN!

Just wasn't ABLE, was willing, yearning, wanting, yes... able, not so much!



I suppose that can be more frustrating on a personal level; but the opposite of that is just as complicated and difficult.wine
Is this post offensive? If so, Report this post »
England personals
trish123
Lancashire, Lancashire, England UK
Posted: Apr 12, 2008, 12:21 PM CST
gillyloves69 wrote:
THINGS ABOUT A PERSON WHEN ' YOU'RE IN LOVE ' OR CAN YOU SEE CLEARLY ALL THE WAY !



ARE YOU ' QUALIFIED ' TO FALL IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE ? OR SIMPLY A MENACE TO SOCIETY ?


Good question Gilly thumbs up Yep, I believe you can see bad things still about a person you love, its all down to how much you are willing to overlook (or not) these things - a good reason for taking a lot of time in getting to know somebody if you ask me and also a good reason to get to know the difference between love and infatuation thumbs up
Is this post offensive? If so, Report this post »



AudrysSis
Riga, Riga Latvia
Posted: Apr 12, 2008, 1:07 PM CST
lovestrees wrote:
Like: anyone can get a plane to fly off the ground, just floor the throttle and it will take off... easy, BUT! If you haven't mastered LANDINGS, well, you know.

Relationships were the same for me, easy to start... then, the inevitable, CRASH AND BURN!

Just wasn't ABLE, was willing, yearning, wanting, yes... able, not so much!


thumbs up
Is this post offensive? If so, Report this post »
free online dating
mychelle
Toronto, Ontario Canada
Posted: Apr 12, 2008, 1:11 PM CST
gillyloves69 wrote:
THINGS ABOUT A PERSON WHEN ' YOU'RE IN LOVE ' OR CAN YOU SEE CLEARLY ALL THE WAY !



ARE YOU ' QUALIFIED ' TO FALL IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE ? OR SIMPLY A MENACE TO SOCIETY ?

Yes, you can still see the good, the bad, the ugly in the person you are in love with. Hoever, one chooses to ignore it , thinking the person will change.
I am qualified to love somebody, because I love myself first, and I am not waiting or wanting for somebody to provide me with happiness.
Is this post offensive? If so, Report this post »

Report this thread if it breaks rules, is offensive, or contains fighting. Staff does not know about forum abuse (and cannot do anything about it), unless you tell us about it. If this thread is offensive, please click here to report it »

If site dates and times do not show correctly, you can fix this by editing your timezone
Click here to edit your timezone »