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took in what you said and im now at this moment going to just cut all ties , as most of you seem to have said the same thing "stalker" im glad i asked for help now as i wouldnt have seen it this way at all i would have just put it down to his personality or as sharon said made excuses for him .thankyou peeps you have all been a big help

OK started chatting with a nice guy exactly 6 days ago .now I'm getting the "we could be soul mates" speech and the "when you coming to see me?" speech as well .now i listen to what most of you say in other threads relating to dating and iv done the fair thing by telling him to slow down he replies by saying "if its meant to be were not rushing" ? basically without getting into the whole thing he has an answer for everything and its getting on my nerves ,but i have to tread care-full as hes rather emotional so what would be the best way to deal with this ?like i said iv tried the "being kind" part iv also tried the "stop rushing and lets see what we have in common" but he just wont stop with the "soppy speeches" don't get me wrong i understand some people are more emotional than others so iv tried to be gentle but firm to no avail , the other day he sent me a message ,i read it but couldn't think of what to say so decided to leave it a while then get back to it when i had more time to think about it ,20 minutes later "i saw you have read my message but didn't reply? have you lost interest ?" or when i put my new pic up he was like "you will have everyone chasing you now that you have a new pic up ,I'm not sure i like that" ? iv asked him to stop and he tells me iv picked it up wrong he was only complimenting me ? so then i feel like a child whos been told off lol help oh wise peeps

Sounds scary...6 days and he thinks you're his soulmate...I hate to say it but he sounds obsessive and very manipulative....and of course when confronted he will deny it...that's what they do...look out because he also sounds like stalker material and I say this from experience....I would cut all ties with him because it will only get worse.....

OK started chatting with a nice guy exactly 6 days ago .now I'm getting the "we could be soul mates" speech and the "when you coming to see me?" speech as well .now i listen to what most of you say in other threads relating to dating and iv done the fair thing by telling him to slow down he replies by saying "if its meant to be were not rushing" ? basically without getting into the whole thing he has an answer for everything and its getting on my nerves ,but i have to tread care-full as hes rather emotional so what would be the best way to deal with this ?like i said iv tried the "being kind" part iv also tried the "stop rushing and lets see what we have in common" but he just wont stop with the "soppy speeches" don't get me wrong i understand some people are more emotional than others so iv tried to be gentle but firm to no avail , the other day he sent me a message ,i read it but couldn't think of what to say so decided to leave it a while then get back to it when i had more time to think about it ,20 minutes later "i saw you have read my message but didn't reply? have you lost interest ?" or when i put my new pic up he was like "you will have everyone chasing you now that you have a new pic up ,I'm not sure i like that" ? iv asked him to stop and he tells me iv picked it up wrong he was only complimenting me ? so then i feel like a child whos been told off lol help oh wise peeps