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Fair play to you - that honesty. Yes, what you say could be true. But something about us all being "anonymous" does bring out truths not to be found elsewhere. Dont think that if we would see the honesty that is expressed here if we were all on the same bus home from work and forced to chat face-to-face !.

Dont know what what CS is like elsewhere, but I've dated two woman that I met through CS in the last three months. Things didnt go beyond a few dates, true. But I have a new date this week, again with a woman that I have met through CS. So maybe it might just fill my living room with some reality soon, just never know.

Peter

Good on ya.
Hope it works out for you.

I have been on CS for nearly 10 months now, and am not a person that's goes into Forums quite often (which is a pitty as there are some great threads) but have made some good friends. I have been on a couple of dates but that's where it ended. I'm not sure that I will find my soul mate here, but i'm sure that some of us have and will. For some it can be difficult as you may live thousands of miles away from each other and cannot leave the country for good for personal reasons, for instance I am one of them, but correct me if i'm wrong,Connecting Singles doesn't have to mean dating the person but getting to know people from around the world with different cultures and different way of thinking.

It is called 'connecting singles' so could mean whatever you wish. I have met some wonderful people and have made friends, real life ones. Most of the people I have met, including some of the posters on this thread have been as nice in real life as they appear on here.

Imagine I will be adding you to the list of friends once we meet in Sorrento Yihaaa

Thank you and look forward to meet ya all.....

Consider this website as a place where to get in touch with other person 99% of them single. I don`t believe in these websites or maybe i don`t believe in finding someone right now! I don`t like to meet people knew on Internet, not because i`m afraid or something but because i met a lot when i was living in Sicily and everything finished the same day we met. Only one i knew a person that was very nice but everything finished after some days for different reasons, but insomma... i have no regrets about people that i met but i always try not to meet others. If i decide to meet one is because my feelings say so and they are never wrong!

You have defeated the purpose of joining a website like this if you say you don't believe in the or don't like them. It's all about positive attitude and hope for the future.

DITTO!
Sure beat T.V. anytime.

I thought I was ready to deal with a new relationship.....I may have been mistaken!!

"How many of you can deal with a new relationship ?" quoted headline


I can, easy if one has VISA or AMERICAN EXPRESS, or if you want to pretend that you're someone else or something that you're not, use Mexican Express and she'll never know as with cash. She doesn't ever need to know who you are...%D
Yeah, beats tv re-runs anyday or night....

I don't know. I had a lot of crap happen to me over the last two years,which isn't a lot to most people. I have been hurt left and right and I dont think it was ever intentional...I guess I'm just at a very confused and trying time in my life. At this point I am not ready for a new relationship unless it was someone I was close with before...not a stranger. I pray by the grace of god that the next relationship wont leave me on my knees begging for forgiveness for every move I make.

I think that thinking about a relationship and being ready to deal with the reality of one are very different things.

Being on places like cs gives people an opportunity to realise if they are ready to REALLY deal with somone in their lives or not, because we talk with so many different kinds of people with different takes on life, so it's a useful tool in dealing with what we THINK we want.

Given that opportunity, though, is only the beginning. We still have to go out there and DO something about it, and that is often where the dificulty lies. Even being on here doesn't help you with the reality of interacting face to face with another person. So much still depends on stereotypical conditioning, like what a person looks like, their mannerisms, habits and such, and any given individuals reaction, based on past experience, to another person.

I'm beginning to find, too, that many people seem to change their minds about what they want after being on here for a while. When they spend a bit of time here and their lonliness is assuaged a bit, they find that maybe it wasn't a relationship or marriage that they want at all, but maybe friendship or pen pals or just someone to talk to at a distance on their computers.

I often wonder how many people found that this was a good opportunity for changing their minds of what they thought they wanted, or if they found some aspect of themselves, in relating to people on here, that they hadn't found any other way?

Amen Ginger...right to the core as usual!
I think CS is a support group, even when we don't realize we need one! And a big thank you to all that contribute to that!

Well said...
I have been alone now for 15yrs?????
Through my own choice.
I find the world so crazy!
Yes I have found inner peace!
Was hard
But saying that I do have my black days?
Cyber love is the one

Just read what you wrote on other threads and like your attitude.

Chin up!!! At least we have each ither in here!!!