Why is so difficult to find the right one?

kurzita
Xaghra, Gozo Malta

Posted: Apr 18, 2008, 1:18 AM CST

StressFree wrote:

Happens all the time....expectations in a relationship is a killer. Expecting the other person to make your life perfect. My recent ex had enormous expectations for me to do everything as she thought a boyfriend should do....just to make her world perfect. Sorry, I was not a morning person etc....Respecting differences plays a vital role...and a little sacrifice here and there. But not being the person that your partner thinks you should be. If you can't be yourself, or if you won't allow your partner the liberty to be his/her self, then things can get fucked up....

G'morning all,

Just a quick peep during morning coffee...have to work...but yes, couldn't have said it better.....

No magic 'Happiness' wand available I'm afraid....

cu

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Ashley173
Madelia, Minnesota USA

Posted: Apr 18, 2008, 1:20 AM CST

lavender84 wrote:

I really don`t now why it`s so difficult: maybe there is something wrong in me(but i don`t think so), maybe it`s not the right time, maybe i`m simply not lucky! or maybe i will stay alone forever!! ahahahah btw the best thing to do is one: laugh!

Cuz I suck at life lol j/k. Cuz i haven't been single very long. And Im too damn picky.

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kurzita
Xaghra, Gozo Malta

Posted: Apr 18, 2008, 1:20 AM CST

slim1977 wrote:

I have decided to just enjoy life single and if that right one happins to come along all the better.

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muppetkiller
Snyder, Oklahoma USA

Posted: Apr 18, 2008, 1:34 AM CST

I want a guy who doesn't demand I go to bed with him. I want a guy who let's me write, paint, whatever, and slide in bed with him, for my four hours.

When I'm creative, I sleep four hours. When I dream about creativity, I sleep 12- 14 hours. What's wrong with a woman sleeping, or working, while her man sleeps? What's wrong with her working, while he sleeps?

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CuspofMagic
Space/Energy---, Piedmont Italy

Posted: Apr 18, 2008, 1:35 AM CST

---ok

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Wolftrap
Murray, Utah USA

Posted: Apr 18, 2008, 1:38 AM CST

NOTHING is wrong with that.

It's difficult to find the "perfect one" because this world isn't perfect. Once you let go of your requirements, defuse them, and open yourself up to what the world has to offer, you find yourself in unexpected places, and the unexpected is exciting! Seriously, who wants someone JUST LIKE YOU? It becomes predictable, and later...BORING.

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PeachesandRay
Concord, North Carolina USA

Posted: Apr 18, 2008, 4:31 AM CST

lavender84 wrote:

I really don`t now why it`s so difficult: maybe there is something wrong in me(but i don`t think so), maybe it`s not the right time, maybe i`m simply not lucky! or maybe i will stay alone forever!! ahahahah btw the best thing to do is one: laugh!

This may not relate to you directly, but in some cases...perhaps many cases, I personally believe many men and women are missing out on love because he or she is looking for perfection, and is bypassing a lot of excellence in the relationships they've had in the past. Look, no one is perfect, but an excellent mate with a few flaws is much better than spending a lifetime alone while still searching out for just the perfect person we think we all want to have as a soulmate.

JMHO....Peaches

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lavender84
S. Venera, Majjistral Malta

Posted: Apr 18, 2008, 5:07 AM CST

I`m not looking for someone perfect, anzi... all the men that i liked in my life where not perfect at all! I don`t care at all about the outside, i like to "remove" the skin that covers them and try to find what there is underneath... sometimes u find beautiful things! It`s rare but it happens!

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charliez26
Sebring, Florida USA

Posted: Apr 18, 2008, 5:23 AM CST

lavender84 wrote:

I`m not looking for someone perfect, anzi... all the men that i liked in my life where not perfect at all! I don`t care at all about the outside, i like to "remove" the skin that covers them and try to find what there is underneath... sometimes u find beautiful things! It`s rare but it happens!

goodmorning and too everyone else i dont really know the answer to that question but it is true! not really a perfect but a decent relationship!

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Ambrose2007
Badger, South Dakota USA

Posted: Apr 18, 2008, 8:51 AM CST

chimike wrote:

I know what you mean...and agree to a certain extent.....BUT, in this day and age I think some people take the 'love thyself' bit too far....they love themselves so much that they don't have enough for anyone else! I do believe there are some people that are so enamored with themselves that they can't possibly care for anyone else near as much....jmo.

I've found that dressing them up to resemble me helps with that problem...

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StressFree
small city, Kalmar Sweden

Posted: Apr 18, 2008, 8:52 AM CST

Ambrose2007 wrote:

I've found that dressing them up to resemble me helps with that problem...

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moloko
somewhere, Tyrol Austria

Posted: Apr 18, 2008, 8:55 AM CST

walking in

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walking out

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