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In my opinion, I feel that homosexuality is not a choice. The causes of homosexuality are not all understood right now with the information that is available to us by scientists and certain religions. Scientists also claim to show that homosexuality happens not only in humans. Many other types of animals (like penguins, chimpanzees, and dolphins) often show homosexuality.

My outside of the box belief on this is a simple matter of energies, in that there are male and female energies. In a male, when he is endowed with predominately female energies*, he exerts this characteristic, which is predominately in females.. This then is the reason for the attraction to males, for opposites do attract, whether they be in male or female bodies. So this is represented down to an energy level of female energy being in a male body, attracted to male energy in a male body.
*When I speak of a female energy in a man, I mean the polarity or disposition of the soul which was given a more predominately female energy.

It could mean that said soul has had more female lives, or female experiences. There is, at creation of souls, a personality imprint which usually is more male or more female or somewhat more neutral in regards to an earthly existence.
Past lives have a lot to do with this because they are experiences which are remembered, and so program somewhat the affectations of the individual in expressing the energies. The lives, however, do not determine whether the entity be male or female....follow me people?...good.

So lets say that a soul had more lives of one sex than the other, then that soul would have have some difficulty in in coping with a gender energy that it is not so accustomed to. Because there is more familiarity with the opposite sex. It could cause confusion for there is, in this society, much programming to be strictly either a man or a woman, and not simply one or the other with the genders crossed.

IMO, this is the best explanation for me considering today's primitive science regarding this subject. This is the most prevalent reason for homosexuality imo. However, there are cases where one chooses to incarnate in such a cross reality in order to learn lessons. Many lessons being: temperance, tolerance, patience, humility, etc. It may not simply be a matter of choice but of necessity.

With that said, nothing is what it seems given the prescribed nonsense in our world of restricted and controlled paradigms......

I love a metro-sexual man!

not meaning you.........

I'm just sayin' a man who takes longer to do his hair than I do... a man who smells so darn good.... a man who looks spiffy.... I'm starting to swoon at the thought of it all............ outta here before I start drooling

I used to be like that, then again I used to have more hair to be creative with.
With that said, I love to wear matching colors, I love to look spiffy, I like to smell good in a natural way, I love talking with women about unmanly things, and I am only attracted to women....so there are no misconceptions here.

And I am in touch and aware of my female energies in me.....

a metro-sexual man....I have never known one to not stick up for his sexuality....if people don't understand a metro, I say pttthhhhhttt to them....no need to explain it.....crud.........gotta run......am starting to swoon again.......

You know, I have been pondering on this question for some time ... and came to a possible theory on WHY we have such an enormous increase in numbers of homosexual people.

It might be because The Planet is overpopulated ( 6 billion people and they still go strong on reproduction)

It might be because Nature creating self defense mechanism to stop human reproduction?!

Yep, and it also ties in with other reasons for our individual and collective evolution as souls in a cosmic sense. Just part of the equation. But Mother Earth will indeed put things back in balance once we are so out of balance with our eco systems....

I am, too, Stressless. I think it's fine to be "in touch" with one's female "energies" or whathaveyou, as long as one doesn't "touch" one's female parts a lot. If you know what I mean.

I am mancrushing on you Ambrose....

I think some are really homosexual by birth and I think a larger number are influence by media and choice, ...which is o.k too.

My mangina appreciates that, Stressless.

Can you run with your theory? I am having a hard time understanding how the media can overturn one's gender. Sale me....
Choice, yes in the sense that an individual has accepted their sexual energy they were born with which would pave the way for him/her to "come out of the closet"...however, I don't think anybody just wakes up one day and magically decides to be homosexual......Can you confirm your thoughts with a little more than opinion? Just curious here to see things in the objective light....

There definitely seems to be an increase in homosexuality for some reason but the scientist in me looks for more logical answers. The idea of past lives is a good one BUT I don't believe in past lives because anyone I ever heard talk about then will always say they were someone famous in a past life! Energies yes, we all possess our own and sometimes how we feel them depends on how we were allowed to develop, not just by parents but also friends, society, environments etc.

On the animal thing, yes it has been documented that it exists but on a very small scale. I've worked around animals my whole life and have never personally come across it.

Haven't thought much as to why and yes it is definitely a way of curbing human reproduction BUT is it in the increase in poorer third world countries the same way it is in our 1st world countries?

Think maybe changes in diet/nutrition/additives, technologies(wave forms), stress, etc probably play a far greater part in the fetus and its development and to what it grows in to as an adult. JMO of course

I feel that we can't brand all homosexuals as being born that way or it was by choice.When I said the media I mean the things people see from the media like it is accepted to be gay and rights and things like that. I think in the days of (wild guess)pre 1970 the media would not have an openly gay host of a show or the network would be shut down, but today the govt says it o.k ....so the media promotes it and people see this and a lot think they are gay.

Maybe some thruth in this.

Up to a few decades ago, hoosexuality was a no no. Socially, religiously, whichever way you want to look at it.

I mean, up until the sixties, a lot of countries, including ours, considered hoosexuality as a criminal illegality.

Tings have changed such that today we find a lot more individuals with hoosexual tendencies coming out openly about it. The social acceptance of this has led to more putting up thier hands sort of thing.

The numbers or ratios may be the same as before, only now it is out in the open whereas up to a few years ago it was all under the carpet sort ot.

Good point, maybe the ratio is the same and it is accepted more these days so now we see more..

Okay, I see your points and agree with how the media and Hollywood has helped homosexuals feel more normal about themselves and put their feet down at an early age. I still stand by my opinion that homosexuals are born as they are due to the gender energy that is dominate in them.

I grew up in San Francisco, the homosexual capital of the world during the 70's and 80's. So I never really saw them as freaks of nature do to the extremely liberal atmosphere in Frisco and how my parents raised me...to see people as souls. I had friends(men/woman) who came out during their teen years in the mid 80's....long before Hollywood and the media openly promoted homosexuality. So by experience of what I saw and perceived before the media and Hollywood openly exposed homosexuality, I still stand firm in my theory of gender energies and how homosexuals are born with them, and that they don't have a choice...they just are what they feel.

Agree on most.

It's got to do a lot with the X and Y factors in one's DNA let's not forget.

Yes, there are those who are born to be homosexuals, and there is absolutely nothing they or anybody else can do about that.

There are other factors however that also effect the human sexuality. Can't remember where or from when, but I read an article way back that said that homosexuality increases as the concentration of males increases and the balance proportionally of male/female becomes unbalanced.

Even more so in confined situation, such as prisons and ships. Obviously this was discussing the male homosexualo tendencies.

Things can get complicated here with my theory and Konigsberg's. I'm just gong to say that there are more homosexuals today as opposed to 200 years ago....due to the universes plan and mother Earth's plan in this astral plane to protect our species and help us not overpopulate. There are forces at work that are not visible to us and those concepts would blow some minds here considering the paradigms we live with. But that deserves a thread for itself.
Consider that Mother Earth is indeed a living entity and shares the same energy as we do, but vibrates and connects to the God Source in a different way.

Not sure about more then 200 year thing thou.....

It is historically known that homosexuality was random within the Roman era, Grfeek era, Egyptian era......

I mean it has been with us longer then we actually know. It seems that is just something within the human evolution that ebbs and flows.

During certain periods it becomes common, in other it dimishes. I wouldn't think it has anything to do with our disrupting the planet.

The human race certainly is damaging the energy source, no doubt about that. However, I doubt vey much that this effects human sexuality.

Oh, I am not denying the historical facts of homosexuality dating back the Roman/Greek/Egyptian era....not at all. I am just saying there are more present today for a reason that we are not ready to understand yet....