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The vital issue hindering your prospective relations.

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The vital issue hindering your prospective relations.

Posted: Apr 20, 2008, 1:23 PM CST
I was just thinking how its so easy when one is by himself or herself .... one knows what one wants , likes , enjoys , dislikes .. its simply so simple ...
yet surprising it is how many a times it takes one so long to find the perfect or close to compatible match in their eyes.

hmmm

Whats the vital difference ( in opinion , in habits , way of living , your nature ) or say main issue which usually becomes the reason for you to shy away / say no / not consider someone .. or even walk out of a prospective relationship.

dunno


Please bear with me if i am not around enough to reply to the posts.

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anjel
tempe, Arizona USA
Posted: Apr 20, 2008, 1:34 PM CST
riyablossom wrote:
I was just thinking how its so easy when one is by himself or herself .... one knows what one wants , likes , enjoys , dislikes .. its simply so simple ...
yet surprising it is how many a times it takes one so long to find the perfect or close to compatible match in their eyes.
Whats the vital difference ( in opinion , in habits , way of living , your nature ) or say main issue which usually becomes the reason for you to shy away / say no / not consider someone .. or even walk out of a prospective relationship.

Please bear with me if i am not around enough to reply to the posts.


my ex and I have been talking about getting back together. we split moreso because of distance. so i told him, perhaps we should date other people and if he decides to move here, we can move forward...So, he told me recently, "i am moving there soon".

we shall see.cheers

i cant say that I really have any major problems with relationships. I am usually lucky not to run into many problems. But, something I have noticed with others relationships is they are not usually 50/50 or atleast 50/30 hell..... one wants too much and not willing to give anything. and that can be romance, respect, etc etc jmo
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gingerb
Letterkenny, Donegal Ireland
Posted: Apr 20, 2008, 1:36 PM CST
the vital difference ( in opinion , in habits , way of living , your nature ) or say main issue which usually becomes the reason for you to shy away / say no / not consider someone .. or even walk out of a prospective relationship

All of the aboverolling on the floor laughing
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Posted: Apr 20, 2008, 1:37 PM CST
anjel wrote:
my ex and I have been talking about getting back together. we split moreso because of distance. so i told him, perhaps we should date other people and if he decides to move here, we can move forward...So, he told me recently, "i am moving there soon".

we shall see.

i cant say that I really have any major problems with relationships. I am usually lucky not to run into many problems. But, something I have noticed with others relationships is they are not usually 50/50 or atleast 50/30 hell..... one wants too much and not willing to give anything. and that can be romance, respect, etc etc jmo


Thanks Anjel .. havent gotten the chance to say hello to you ..
handshake smile

Thats something to hink about hmmm
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anjel
tempe, Arizona USA
Posted: Apr 20, 2008, 1:39 PM CST
riyablossom wrote:
Thanks Anjel .. havent gotten the chance to say hello to you ..


Thats something to hink about


handshake nice to meet you too madam.
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Posted: Apr 20, 2008, 1:42 PM CST
gingerb wrote:
the vital difference ( in opinion , in habits , way of living , your nature ) or say main issue which usually becomes the reason for you to shy away / say no / not consider someone .. or even walk out of a prospective relationship

All of the above


uh oh! laugh

Hi there ..wave
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Posted: Apr 20, 2008, 3:07 PM CST
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