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All your doubts are completely right, It won't work out, she will break your sensitive heart. In fact mail me her phone No. and I will explain why you can't go. What are friends for after all

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All your doubts are completely right, It won't work out, she will break your sensitive heart. In fact mail me her phone No. and I will explain why you can't go. What are friends for after all

Hey T. I have a nice little movie, you could watch with her, if you like.

This may or may not have happened before....both in a good and bad way. But that is how it is.

Thanks for the advice so far. I feel more calm now. Yes, go with the flow and be with the present.....at times it is hard to practice what I preach, just need others once in a while to tell me this when it comes to dating and love....cause it so complicated at times, yet should be simple if we only live in the now and cherrish what we have, and don't worry about what we don't have. Thanks again for reminding me that what I envisioned in the future has never happened and that anything is possible.

So why ya going out w/a female then?

Hey Stress free, you forgot to answer Indy!

Behave now.

I don't think he liked the question...(which was meant in humor)

Yeah and I have just done 40hrs travelling .. 8296 miles.. and 14 plane takes offs.and landings. (again)

So, am I over thinking this?

So tomorrow I will be adventuring three hours for a date! Kinda near Stockholm. I met this beautiful 40 year old Swedish woman at a private party recently at a mutual friends house. We got along really well and exchanged numbers...nothing else. Since then, we have been talking a great deal on the phone and we really get along extremely well....we just flow without the uncomfortable static.
She texts me no less than 8 times a day...sometimes with pics Anyways, it already feels like we are boyfriend and girlfriend for some reason.

So the here's the deal, we are going to eat out, and take it from there...although she has slipped in a few hints about me staying till Sunday. She said she is really nervous about this date. I am in no way what so ever nervous about this. I am just really looking forward to sharing myself as well as getting to know her better and have some wonderful company.
I have no expectations about this. I am not like "OMG" this is going to be the woman of my dreams and we are going to have a perfect relationship and live happily ever after
I do believe that this weekend will go extremely well. However, if it does not, then fine. No biggie. I am not desperate....well....you know what I mean.

I plan on being my usual self. I will use my intuition to read the situation and go from there. I just want a fun, romantic, and passionate evening free of static.
I will not bring her flowers or roses...too cliche, but I will bring a bottle of red wine.

If you are not aware, Sweden is very liberal when it comes to the sexing on first dates. She has more than hinted her desires of such physical activities...she is in her sexual prime and very comfortable with her sexuality. So if anyone is wondering, use your imagination as to what may or may not happen. God bless Sweden in that sense....hey, I too come from a very liberal part of the world (San Francisco), and I think everybody is aware by now of my position when it comes to you know what.

So, the only thing that is bothering me, is the distance thing and the fact that her kid lives with her every other week. My kids are still pretty young (12 and 7), so what I am saying, is that I may or may not see a potential problem down the road. How often I will see her....I kinda want somebody closer. However, I am open to see how this turns out. Then, if things turn out spectacular, then another problem will be moving in together. I really don't want to live with somebody elses kid at this stage in my life. My kids are still young, her kid is young, and I am just not ready for the mixed family thing....I think.

So, am I over thinking this? Should I just not worry about that and just have a good time this weekend. I just don't want a bad ending here. Either way, it's cool, I can do the long distance thing for a while. I just don't want to feel like I am running towards a dead end. I can say that I think she is a very special woman.

Advice, come with it if you had the time to read my long post....