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I found out today, through a reliable source that my friends 15 year old son has been drinking and taking exstacy... do I tell her? she thinks he is a great boy

yes i think that you should..he is only a boy and she needs to know..something could happen and how would you feel if something bad did happen and you could have spoken up????

I would because ecstacy can kill...so he is putting himself in a dangerous situation...If it were just drinking I would say leave it and let her find out...BUT what he is doing can be lethal...particularly if he is mixing the 2.....

Yes, yes, yes! She probably already knows something is going on with him, but is in denial. She may not believe it...but that is her choice. Tell her, tell her your source, tell her where to get help...give her the information and let her try to help her son.

yes, but be prepared that she may not believe you

Be prepared that she may not like you either..........

yeah I agree .. tell her.. but expect maybe that ^ reaction..

I have a kind of pact with my buddies (with same aged kids).. that if we ever find out anything about each others that's dangerous or whatever.. then no matter what.. we will tell.

Yepp..

You COULD start it with..

Hmm I have something to tell you.. it may not be true, but I hope that if you heard the same of one of my children .. you would tell me too.. true or not.

She could be taking it too (the mother).



Kidding, Vonney. Seriously, I think you should tell her, she may not like you after, but trust me, she would look into it and save her child.

I hope it's not too late. Hurry and call her NOW!!

If your friendship is strong perhaps it will stand the test...
But in my expereince I end up the enemy...

I would still do the right thing if the information is reliable or even substantial..
Perhaps if you know him persoanlly you could pull him aside and let him know of your concerns for his welfare...give him some pamphlets on drugs...most teenagers are experimenting and caught up in peer pressure and unaware of the lurking dangers.

Am picking her up to go for a hike in the morning will try that, her and her partner were so good to me in the past(they live 2 doors away and I hate to hurt them, when my ex lost it and tryed to strangle me my son ran around the back of the houses to them for help.

Aaawwww (mine did that too)


anyhooo.. I reeeeeeally think at the start of it you must say something like.. This may not be true at all BUT.