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I'm always wondering when it is best to call someone you're interested in and when it is best for you to wait for them to call you. I have been on several dates with the same person and he seems interested. He tells me to call him, invites me over, etc. but seems that I am usually the one calling him. I really want to call him today but don't want to seem too clingy. Any thoughts on this?

Also, how do you determine whether the relationship is about sex or whether there is more to it than that?

Dating can be so confusing

I let "him" call me at least 80% of the time.....


as for sex, if you see a thread about yourself, well then......you'll get the hint...

Can't speak for him but if I were interested, especially after a date or two, you would not have to be the one calling.

Go with your intuition. Deep down, You probably already know the answer to your own questions

delete his number,,,,,,see how long it takes him to call you,,,,

I agree with the two, above me.

And i agree with Princess. Didn't see you!

Don't give him the sex and see how long he stays around...

it's okay either way, just quit hitting yerself silly!

Don't call him. Reference the book: "He's Just Not That Into You." You can do better!!!

Princess!

to froggy1, who pays for the dates?

no way call him hun, if its a new relationship then let him come to you ,if he s in to you he will.men like the pursuit thing .

Yeah.. but isn't the usual 'Uninterested' tack.. 'I'll call YOU'..

then they don't?..



Sounds like with asking her over and asking her to call.. he is leaving the ball in her court.


maybe he is sitting around waiting for the phone to ring?

I agree. I don't think that some people appreciate what they get for nothing or get easy. This is costing him nothing!!!

hahaha what do I know?..

no wonder im friggin single..

read mimi tanner , look for it on the web, she s amazing about getting your head round relationships and getting to the root of probs

lol sure arent we all experts,,,,,,help am hungry but dont want to brek my diet

SHE calls him, SHE goes to his place, what does HE do for her?

Asks her to call him...

Asks her to come over....

wtf?

the phone works both ways...why doesn't he call her?

like I asked before, who pays for the dates.... I got a few bets running on the answer.....

he does