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Problem is, I'm not sure whether to trust how I am feeling. Sometimes I think that I get scared if I like someone too much or if things are going well and I find a way to sabatoge it you know? Sometimes I start to look for something that is wrong because things are going too well. Which doesn't make any sense.

Oh well, that's just my own issue. I've seen too many things. And I work at a domestic violence shelter which doesn't help. That will kill off any desire for a committed relationship if you let it. I see way too many crazy relationships.

Hi Froggy.

Did he call, today?

Well maybe you could talk to someone about those issues, but I still really believe, if it doesn't feel right, it probably isn't--go with your gut feelings, and if you can't trust them, find a professional to talk to about that--no harm in getting some perspective...

There is no problem.Just do what your heart says only.

No, he didn't call but I did talk to him last night and this morning. And as always, when I left his house (I know, I know, I need to quit that) he said "call me today. I'd love to hear from you"

It's enough to drive a person crazy.

Anyway, I did talk to him about how he is feeling and he says he is interested and he does seem interested. Unfortunately, we didn't talk much about the phone problem, just about how we are feeling about each other right now. So, we just need to get this phone problem figured out. I don't mind calling him but I don't like trying to figure out how he's feeling about everything.

So, have I completely lost my mind? Maybe I shouldn't have gone out with him yesterday. I don't know. my emotions have taken over so I am afraid that my logic has gone out the window.

Anyway, thanks for all of your help, luscious. I appreciate it.

Hey froggy1

I would ask him why he never calls.
At least then you can get a good sense of where he is coming.
Then you can process in your own intuitive way if he is real or fake.

Fixed...I left out from in my first post....

Oh Luscious....you can be silly and sexy at times.....

Where did that come from?

So you called him twice since last night, you spent another night at his and he asked you to call him, yet again after a night of passion. I can imagine the smirk on his face, when he says these things. >>>




Yep, lose him.

I think I have to agree. You may not trust your own feelings or perspective on this, but if what you describe is true, wow, this is not a nice guy who cares about you. Walk away from this.

I agree, but I think you still should confront him.

Yep. Guess that's what I need to do.

Oh well, I am leaving for mexico this week and will be there for almost a month so that will give me some time to clear my head and figure out whatever happened to my common sense.

Point blank he's using you... srry for being blunt but he should take more of an initative to contact you more often. he doesnt call you, you stay at his home overnight and call him, hes got everything he wants. How long you know him for.

Sounds like the perfect opportunity to forget this guy.

I wish you would have said Sweden......so I have a redhead infatuation or fetish... jk on the Sweden part, but not the redhead part.

I think it's rather too late to ask girl, he already had the goods, in abundance.



It wouldn't matter to me what he said now, it's how he treated me, that would matter. He could say anything now, to keep enjoying the benefits. Question is, aside from the sex, what feels good about the 'relationship?

I'm getting a skunky vibe, from his little habits, that you described.

You mean been there done that?

Yes.