what things should you really know about a person before you decide whether to go to bed with them ?

gillyloves69
london, Outer London, England UK

Posted: Apr 27, 2008, 5:08 AM CST

and would you rather know sooner or later ?

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tinymac
hilversum, Flevoland Netherlands

Posted: Apr 27, 2008, 5:12 AM CST

gillyloves69 wrote:

and would you rather know sooner or later ?

another good question, mate

1) for me, thats shes a woman!!

2) that she has a good sense of humour

3) That she at least will contemplate the same with me!!!???

4) Trust and fun between us

5) she has no unpronouncable deseas i can catch!!!

Well, its a starting point at least, but, in reality of course, one at least has to meet up with a woman in the first place to get it all started!!!

Good luck

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morganlee
Qawra, Majjistral Malta

Posted: Apr 27, 2008, 5:14 AM CST

Hi Gilly

That his not married or already in a relationship

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lusciousmile
Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland

Posted: Apr 27, 2008, 5:14 AM CST

How big it is.

I accept word of mouth.

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Zarah
dublin, Dublin Ireland

Posted: Apr 27, 2008, 5:15 AM CST

morganlee wrote:

Hi Gilly

That his not married or already in a relationship

definitely....

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gillyloves69
london, Outer London, England UK

Posted: Apr 27, 2008, 5:15 AM CST

tinymac wrote:

another good question, mate

1) for me, thats shes a woman!!

2) that she has a good sense of humour

3) That she at least will contemplate the same with me!!!???

4) Trust and fun between us

5) she has no unpronouncable deseas i can catch!!!

Well, its a starting point at least, but, in reality of course, one at least has to meet up with a woman in the first place to get it all started!!!

Good luck

some people seems to think that it makes them more respectable by beating around the bush !±

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gillyloves69
london, Outer London, England UK

Posted: Apr 27, 2008, 5:19 AM CST

morganlee wrote:

Hi Gilly

That his not married or already in a relationship

hi morganlee !

why is that the most important thing to know before you go to bed with him then ?

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gillyloves69
london, Outer London, England UK

Posted: Apr 27, 2008, 5:19 AM CST

Zarah wrote:

definitely....

hi zarah !

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Zarah
dublin, Dublin Ireland

Posted: Apr 27, 2008, 5:20 AM CST

gillyloves69 wrote:

hi zarah !

Hey Gilly check out my sign...

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morganlee
Qawra, Majjistral Malta

Posted: Apr 27, 2008, 5:25 AM CST

mainly because i don't do the casual sex thing ,so if i was going to sleep witha guy there has to be feeling and honesty, these kinda relationship's always end in tears for someone. Also my ex husband was unfaithful , and i would never want to responsible for another women feeling like i did when i found out.

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Zarah
dublin, Dublin Ireland

Posted: Apr 27, 2008, 5:33 AM CST

morganlee wrote:

mainly because i don't do the casual sex thing ,so if i was going to sleep witha guy there has to be feeling and honesty, these kinda relationship's always end in tears for someone. Also my ex husband was unfaithful , and i would never want to responsible for another women feeling like i did when i found out.

Once bitten hun...know what you mean..
I would never even consider putting another woman through the humiliation of being cheated on..a very important factor to consider.

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gillyloves69
london, Outer London, England UK

Posted: Apr 27, 2008, 5:36 AM CST

Zarah wrote:

Hey Gilly check out my sign...

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breezee
athens, Attica Greece

Posted: Apr 27, 2008, 5:49 AM CST

morganlee wrote:

mainly because i don't do the casual sex thing ,so if i was going to sleep witha guy there has to be feeling and honesty, these kinda relationship's always end in tears for someone. Also my ex husband was unfaithful , and i would never want to responsible for another women feeling like i did when i found out.

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gillyloves69
london, Outer London, England UK

Posted: Apr 27, 2008, 6:08 AM CST

HATE TO BE BORING ..BUT WHAT ABOUT WHETER YOU'RE SEXUALLY COMPATIABLE ?..OR ARE WE NOT SUPPOSE TO TALK ABOUT THAT ???

OR IS IT BECAUSE IT NOT IMPORTANT WHETER YOU'RE COMPATIABLE IN BED OR NOT ?

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morganlee
Qawra, Majjistral Malta

Posted: Apr 27, 2008, 6:16 AM CST

gillyloves69 wrote:

HATE TO BE BORING ..BUT WHAT ABOUT WHETER YOU'RE SEXUALLY COMPATIABLE ?..OR ARE WE NOT SUPPOSE TO TALK ABOUT THAT ???

OR IS IT BECAUSE IT NOT IMPORTANT WHETER YOU'RE COMPATIABLE IN BED OR NOT ?

It's very important BUT other things have to be right to, i could really find a guy attractive BUT if he was with someone else i wouldn't go there. You did ask what you should know about a person BEFORE you go to bed with them

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breezee
athens, Attica Greece

Posted: Apr 27, 2008, 6:20 AM CST

gillyloves69 wrote:

HATE TO BE BORING ..BUT WHAT ABOUT WHETER YOU'RE SEXUALLY COMPATIABLE ?..OR ARE WE NOT SUPPOSE TO TALK ABOUT THAT ???

OR IS IT BECAUSE IT NOT IMPORTANT WHETER YOU'RE COMPATIABLE IN BED OR NOT ?

It's not that sexual compatibility is not important. Of course it is.

It's just that some people don't think it's important enough to hurt other people's feelings and potentially ruin their lives....

Do you think your sex life is more important than someone else's peace, the happiness of their family?

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gillyloves69
london, Outer London, England UK

Posted: Apr 27, 2008, 7:09 AM CST

breezee wrote:

It's not that sexual compatibility is not important. Of course it is.

It's just that some people don't think it's important enough to hurt other people's feelings and potentially ruin their lives....

Do you think your sex life is more important than someone else's peace, the happiness of their family?

oh don't be silly breeze !

lets first of all be honest ( for a short while )and say the first ten things that comes into our head when first meet somebody say in a bar thats physically attracted to you the same way that you're atttracted to them

and no lying anybody or else you're banned from the thread !

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StressFree
small city, Kalmar Sweden

Posted: Apr 27, 2008, 7:24 AM CST

Shall I say the truth? What say you Gilly? I may or may not be judged in an unfair manner.

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breezee
athens, Attica Greece

Posted: Apr 27, 2008, 7:36 AM CST

gillyloves69 wrote:

oh don't be silly breeze !
lets first of all be honest ( for a short while )and say the first ten things that comes into our head when first meet somebody say in a bar thats physically attracted to you the same way that you're atttracted to them

and no lying anybody or else you're banned from the thread !

I don't even go to bars, Gilly!!!

And the TRUTH is that we're not all totally the same.....
at least we don't express ourselves in totally the same way.....

And you should not think you know people who you only know 3% about, just because you have a good imagination and can make up the 97%

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breezee
athens, Attica Greece

Posted: Apr 27, 2008, 7:38 AM CST

StressFree wrote:

Shall I say the truth? What say you Gilly? I may or may not be judged in an unfair manner.

Gilly likes the truth, StressFree!!

Go ahead! Tell it!!

I'll cover my eyes

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