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I'm sure I'm a pain in the ass once in a while, but in a good way.

That could be a theory. How does one test it?

Carefully!

Too many lovers would be when she has calluses!

For me no not the ammount ...Just the Diss ease...es ...is the biggest turn off....for me personally....

Bareback sex is the ultimate gush but ...I say but comes with a sentance if not ....well blimey you know what Im sayng here...surely.

The correct answer would be "slowly".

Harry scores 98 of a possible 100 points. Extra points added for having mint chocolate-chip ice cream in the fridge!

You're right however IMO the problem it's quite unlikely the other will admit "I'm collecting stamps and you're the next one"... So it finally ends in both parties knowing what are they doing and what for.

I would say yes it would bother me , I would not want a woman who has been with the whole town and when i take her out thinking she is innocent kissing me in public ect ect and all the towns people looking at me like how heck can he kiss those lips . True enough she may have changed but the fact that she had been with everyone in the town still will remain the same. jmo`

Not judging others by my own opinion

But for me personally, yes it does matter

I've been attacted to a reasonable amount of gents throughout my life, but my heart would have only chosen to have been intimate with only three. And no I've not been intimate with all those three. Intimacy is of Great Value to me and I treat it with much respect and honor. Doesn't make me a saint or anything like that, just makes me .....me

I believe we can all respect each other's opinion on this sensitive subject

Morning all...off to work
Shelia

On a whole no, its not really my business but there is a difference between what is appropriate behaviour and what isn't. If the lady in question had become the bicycle for an entire platoon I don't think I would be offering a date. It is not really a question I would ask unless they volunteered the information, preferably not on the first date.

Only if he was a complete womaniser...or what Claire said

I'm gonna go out on a limb here and say if it doesn't bother you whatsoever how many people your mate has been with then you are either a desperate guy/gal that will take anyone or a whore(guy/gal) that knows how many people you've been with and can't say something bad because you'd be talking about yourself in a bad way.

If you've been with more than 10-15 people you can keep that infested cuter to yourself. Unfortunately I'm thinking most women have been with in the neighborhood of 30-40 men and some go way beyond that. Not counting the dad or uncle of course.

Personally if my date is willing to give it up on the first date that means she gave it up on the first date plenty of times before me and I'm outta there.....unless she's ok with giving a head job of course....anyone would stick around for that.

Hey buddy don't think most women have been with 30-40 men. I have a few really good female friends that have had only a few long term relationships that have not worked out and I think that would be a general concensus. Sex on the first date makes her a whore but its ok for a headjob? Double standards dude don't give us guys all the label of jerk.

Whatever....I disagree and that is all

it definitely would change MY perception: would be repulsed by one and thrilled (sick joke) with the other. And it's not a judgement - it's your own integrity WITHOUT judging them. Re liking a person for who they are: isn't the way they go through life (their actions) reflect the BEST who they really are?

About ##### of sex-partners - well, you have to find the right one; but I think "yes" it would bother me, I am better of not knowing...

WOW..Dont speak for all us Women...Damn i think someone ate all ur cheerios.... Dont put a label on all us Women...No matter how many we have been with 1-100 dont make us a whore..or whatever you are referring to...

you just stripped those labels off from some :)

Now see what you've done?? You've opened up a whole new can of worms!!

Here I was trying to figure out how many lovers I have had, and you had to bring up blow jobs. This could be an entirely different thread!

According to the possible(though not likely) first man. A blow job does not count as sex. "I did not have sex with that woman!" so now, how do we count them? Do they count as lovers? And how about the "situation dictates" sex while in prison?? Do they count as lovers?? OMG...I'll never get through all this!!

WooHoo lol I figured some Prince Charming would reply. I'm guessing you're also the type that when a couple is having an argument you like to play hero thinking you'll impress the girl enough that she might ditch her man and leave with you.

I know not all women have been with 30-40 guys. I'm just saying 80% of them have. Lie all you want ladies it's not like I care. I know you better than you know yourself and will sniff out what you are in the first week of knowing you.

"Sex on the first date makes her a whore but its ok for a headjob?"

Yep if she's a whore she won't mind. She probably has some issues with her self esteem that makes her want to please people. You'll be doing her a favor and making her relive something from her past that really turns her on. I'll take it, say ty, and tell her I got some friends that would love her services.

As much as women like to think they are all that and a bag of chips, they don't have a clue and just want someone strong minded, secure and confident while men want innocence, respect, and POSSESSION of the woman(THIS IS WHAT ALL GUYS WANT EVEN IF THEY'LL NEVER ADMIT IT). MINE MINE MINE