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Bowie
winter haven, Florida USA
Posted: Apr 29, 2008, 4:45 PM CST
StressFree wrote:
not a good idea. Did it before and it just made things worse. One party is just taking the edge off, and the other is wishing and hoping......stay away from this practice.....nothing but a negative downside.....imoDiscuss

I have been separated for a year. This happened to me a couple of weeks ago. It has stirred up a whole mess of shit. It was not a good idea. I didn't think I had any feelings for her anymore. Seems like I did. Since then ,The feelings keep changing though, and are evolving back to the way it was before I made that mistake. I think mostly what it is, is that I suddenly remembered what it was like to be in a great relationship and how alone I am some times. It was great sex and I know I will cherish the memory some day. It was however, not the great emotional unity it was.
Live and learn. D'oh!
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StressFree
small city, Kalmar Sweden
Posted: Apr 29, 2008, 4:46 PM CST
Bowie wrote:
I have been separated for a year. This happened to me a couple of weeks ago. It has stirred up a whole mess of shit. It was not a good idea. I didn't think I had any feelings for her anymore. Seems like I did. Since then ,The feelings keep changing though, and are evolving back to the way it was before I made that mistake. I think mostly what it is, is that I suddenly remembered what it was like to be in a great relationship and how alone I am some times. It was great sex and I know I will cherish the memory some day. It was however, not the great emotional unity it was.
Live and learn.


I heard that brother....no upside in having the sexing with the ex....crying
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Zarah
dublin, Dublin Ireland
Posted: Apr 29, 2008, 4:47 PM CST
Bowie wrote:
I have been separated for a year. This happened to me a couple of weeks ago. It has stirred up a whole mess of shit. It was not a good idea. I didn't think I had any feelings for her anymore. Seems like I did. Since then ,The feelings keep changing though, and are evolving back to the way it was before I made that mistake. I think mostly what it is, is that I suddenly remembered what it was like to be in a great relationship and how alone I am some times. It was great sex and I know I will cherish the memory some day. It was however, not the great emotional unity it was.
Live and learn.


Yes you have to remember why you are not together now rather than foucsing on the way it was...can get emotionally confusing..once apart...put nothing flesh between you..only distance..
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martyg
Dublin/Kildare, Dublin Ireland
Posted: Apr 29, 2008, 4:49 PM CST
morganlee wrote:
I didn't mean THAT !! you get worse




Now you tell me!!!!

Well i ain't gonna eat my dinner again...no now anywayuh oh! uh oh! uh oh! grin
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cristina
Lisbon, Groningen Netherlands
Posted: Apr 29, 2008, 4:50 PM CST
Bowie wrote:
I have been separated for a year. This happened to me a couple of weeks ago. It has stirred up a whole mess of shit. It was not a good idea. I didn't think I had any feelings for her anymore. Seems like I did. Since then ,The feelings keep changing though, and are evolving back to the way it was before I made that mistake. I think mostly what it is, is that I suddenly remembered what it was like to be in a great relationship and how alone I am some times. It was great sex and I know I will cherish the memory some day. It was however, not the great emotional unity it was.
Live and learn.


maybe you needed that moment to be sure that the emotional unity was finally sadly gone. Now you amy move on i guessdunno

feeling that the other person regret it right after sex must be horriblerolling eyes no, wasn't your case maybe, i was just picturing ituh oh!

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lusciousmile
Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
Posted: Apr 29, 2008, 4:52 PM CST
I'm sorry to all the divorced people out there.


Must be hard.


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cristina
Lisbon, Groningen Netherlands
Posted: Apr 29, 2008, 4:54 PM CST
lusciousmile wrote:
I'm sorry to all the divorced people out there.Must be hard.


yes, sex with ex wife/hubby is all what the core of this thread is about...not our little stuff sishug

yeah, sorry for those who enjoyed sex with their ex'ssad flower
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lusciousmile
Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
Posted: Apr 29, 2008, 4:56 PM CST
cristina wrote:
yes, sex with ex wife/hubby is all what the core of this thread is about...not our little stuff sis

yeah, sorry for those who enjoyed sex with their ex's


shock

I'm not sorry they enjoyed sex with them, just the loss of what they had.

D'oh!


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Crystal29
Glasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK
Posted: Apr 29, 2008, 4:57 PM CST
if the sex was that good during the relationship why did it break up in the first place
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CapeDoctor
Greystones, Wicklow Ireland
Posted: Apr 29, 2008, 4:57 PM CST
9 out of 10 times that people have sex with their ex is because they had just been dumped by someone new that they really liked! It's kinda like girls going on a chocolate binge after a break-up, you know it's so wrong but you do it anyway for the immediate comfort...sigh sigh sigh
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martyg
Dublin/Kildare, Dublin Ireland
Posted: Apr 29, 2008, 4:58 PM CST
Crystal29 wrote:
if the sex was that good during the relationship why did it break up in the first place



yay THATS MY GIRLhug hug applause grin leprechaun
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lusciousmile
Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
Posted: Apr 29, 2008, 4:58 PM CST
Crystal29 wrote:
if the sex was that good during the relationship why did it break up in the first place


I doubt people are together because of the good sex, only.

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morganlee
Qawra, Majjistral Malta
Posted: Apr 29, 2008, 4:58 PM CST
lusciousmile wrote:
I'm sorry to all the divorced people out there.Must be hard.
nae that was half the problem it never was laugh rolling eyes
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cristina
Lisbon, Groningen Netherlands
Posted: Apr 29, 2008, 4:58 PM CST
lusciousmile wrote:
I'm not sorry they enjoyed sex with them, just the loss of what they had.


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

that was original wasn't it?blushing laugh

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princebuster
leeds/bradford, West Yorkshire, England UK
Posted: Apr 29, 2008, 4:59 PM CST
morganlee wrote:
nae that was half the problem it never was
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing hi morganwave
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morganlee
Qawra, Majjistral Malta
Posted: Apr 29, 2008, 5:01 PM CST
princebuster wrote:
hi morgan
Hi prince hug
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shipoker55
St. Petersburg, Florida USA
Posted: Apr 29, 2008, 5:01 PM CST
heck...if I wanted to have sex with the ex....we wouldn't be an ex. How could any woman say no to this stud-muffin!!rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing Oh God...that hurts to even think aboutsticking out tongue sticking out tongue
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OverTheWindow
Chicago, Paris, Marseille, Illinois USA
Posted: Apr 29, 2008, 5:03 PM CST
cristina wrote:
maybe you needed that moment to be sure that the emotional unity was finally sadly gone.


It's exactly what I realized, I was mistaken myself when I was about to have sex with my ex...
uh oh!
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StressFree
small city, Kalmar Sweden
Posted: Apr 29, 2008, 5:03 PM CST
lusciousmile wrote:
I doubt people are together because of the good sex, only.


true....
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constanza
Los Angeles, California USA
Posted: Apr 29, 2008, 5:03 PM CST
StressFree wrote:
not a good idea. Did it before and it just made things worse. One party is just taking the edge off, and the other is wishing and hoping......stay away from this practice.....nothing but a negative downside.....imoDiscuss



I would not want to give him the benefit of that ever; he is not worthy.
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