Posted: Apr 29, 2008, 7:44 PM CST
While love and lust can make us do some pretty amazingly weird things that under regular conditions that we typically wouldn't do....
1). Take a good, hard look at your situation.
2). Is it right to carry on with a married man?
3). Is it right for the married man to carry on with you?
4). While the wife may or may not be as unlikable as has been portrayed, the fact that remains is this: She is married to "Joe". They are legally married.
5). That means "HANDS OFF"!!
6). Think about it like this: If "Joe" is so willing to carry on with you while he's married, what makes you think that he won't carry on with someone else if you both were married to one another?
7). Two wrongs don't make a right. Never have and never will.
8). You may just want to forget about Joe, ease your wounds, let them heal, then move on to someone who is physically and emotionally available. There may be less heartache in the end.
9). Good Luck!