Posted: May 1, 2008, 11:19 AM CST
LBGuy777 wrote:Know the difference between MOTHERhood and WOMANhood. Period.
What would you know of motherhood or womanhood? For your information, they usually reside in the same body, and can't be separated completely, nor should they be. A woman shouldn't shut off being a mother for a man, and a mother shouldn't shut off being a woman for her child.
When you've had some experience with parenthood, then you can get back to us with your wonderful advice about how children should be raised. Of course a child shouldn't be put in the place of a mate. But at no time can a mate take the place of one's children. If a woman has children, don't expect her to ever place your wants above her children's needs. Until they are grown and should take care of their own needs, and even then there will be times when a man will need to take back seat to them. A real man will understand this and appreciate it, because he feels the same way about his children.