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On what planet?

So, children must be constantly coddled (rather than raised to respect adults privacy , know children have limits and admire your mate's position as your S.O.) and your mate "can just look after himself?"

I can't see any reason in the world why a man would want to date you with that kind of thinking.

that's a plus to sustain my fallacies

the point is...women are good for intimate encounter? This is a question...please don't call it fallacy

Oh course i would expect a potential mate to look after him self i would be his mate not his mother. You seem to want some one to mother you good luck

This is the problem here. Women do not show men the same affection women want to "receive" from men. You focus on her, she focuses on shopping and spoiling the kids which grow up to be what they call "Millenials." Spoiled brats that don't respect others and don't respect boundaries because "mommy" never gave them any when they where young.

It is no wonder divorces occur daily these days.

You do not come into someone's life and supercede their relationship with their children. You develop a loving partnership with them over time. You develop a loving relationship with their children. In time, you bond, probably through marriage. When you bond with a person who has children, you are as much taking on the children as you are your partner. Of course, one who does this has to like children. I don't think you like children. So it's probably best you look for women who don't have children. Probably women who are sterile, just to be on the safe side.

Fallacious argument. You seem to think you can enter into a relationship with a man , give nothing or very little (with the claim that he wants a mother) , and expect him to stay. That thinking is why you are here.

It's not unusual though. Most women think "romance" is all about the man doing things for "them." A bunch of takers.

Huh?



Wow mate, u still living in the Middle ages or something?

change your circle then

I suppose you are a free man. If it's not your fault, the world is big and diversed

It all sounds very Victorian to me.

No, you develop a loving relationship with the "woman." Otherwise there is no reason in being there. I don't date you so I can develop a relationship with your kids. I date you to date YOU. Also, if they have children that is there responsibility not yours. They had them, you didn't. This shows that it is women who want to be babied. Have people take care of them and their kids. Become daddy and take the kids out while the woman give little to nothing in return.

Here's an idea: Stop running around looking for a "provider" and start looking for a "mate." Treat him the way, WOMEN expect to be treated. Keep children in a child's place and watch the relationship flourish.

I'm done with you because you just DON'T get it.

LOL

Oooooooo.....

This really sounds like u got a chip on your shoulder.....

Actually equality, millenials and skyrocketing divorce rates are very modern. Focusing only on caring for women and their kids is what is outdated. You're stuck in the past "mate."

What a lot resentment towards women you seem to have. You seemed to think all the bad things in a relationship are down to the women i would say its 50/50.

I too recommend you don't have children. I raised my son who is one the nicest caring people i know and no way spoilt . And yes i did give him loads of attention which is why he turned out so well adjusted. I also give any one in my life my full attention be it friends or mates. Its all about balance

Ad Hominem attacks usually accompanies a weak argument. Maybe that's why you engage in such.

You are so special, that's why we don't get! Shhhhhhhhhht, you didn't say you're special, I DID

Caring for women and thier kids?????

What exactly are u on about here.....still can't get what u are so angry about!

U don't like wo0men who stand on thier own two feet?

U don't like women who have kids?

U like women who flutter thier eyes at u all day and bring u slipers in the eving?

or what?

I don't need a man mate i have always been independent and as for mothering a man i would run a mile if thats what they expected.

I am perfectly cable of looking after my self thank you very much.