When do we learn ?

gentlepaws
Any town, Ontario Canada

Posted: May 3, 2008, 4:42 PM CST

What does one do when someone walks into your life, that turns you on, has many attributes, yet many negatives as well ? Especially when you've been in the desert without water for a long time. You measure the situation, you come up with the answer, "No". Passion gets in the way. Need and desire clouds logic.

How fast can you get from 0 to hurt ?

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morganlee
Qawra, Majjistral Malta

Posted: May 3, 2008, 4:44 PM CST

Hi Leo, oh it doesn't take long at all

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morganlee
Qawra, Majjistral Malta

Posted: May 3, 2008, 4:45 PM CST

actually i don't think we ever learn

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blue_eyed_blonde
Vinton, Iowa USA

Posted: May 3, 2008, 4:46 PM CST

morganlee wrote:

actually i don't think we ever learn

yeh i agree..

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gentlepaws
Any town, Ontario Canada

Posted: May 3, 2008, 4:46 PM CST

morganlee wrote:

Hi Leo, oh it doesn't take long at all

I am a fool for passion and I'm hurting already.

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morganlee
Qawra, Majjistral Malta

Posted: May 3, 2008, 4:46 PM CST

gentlepaws wrote:

I am a fool for passion and I'm hurting already.

If it helps you are not alone right now

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gentlepaws
Any town, Ontario Canada

Posted: May 3, 2008, 4:47 PM CST

morganlee wrote:

If it helps you are not alone right now

Thank you my dear.

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gentlepaws
Any town, Ontario Canada

Posted: May 3, 2008, 4:50 PM CST

morganlee wrote:

actually i don't think we ever learn

I believe we don't.

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morganlee
Qawra, Majjistral Malta

Posted: May 3, 2008, 4:52 PM CST

gentlepaws wrote:

Thank you my dear.

It makes me wonder, why we go back and keep doing

it, sometimes l believe it is better to be alone .

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Xtabentun
Ontario, Ontario Canada

Posted: May 3, 2008, 4:53 PM CST

gentlepaws wrote:

What does one do when someone walks into your life, that turns you on, has many attributes, yet many negatives as well ? Especially when you've been in the desert without water for a long time. You measure the situation, you come up with the answer, "No". Passion gets in the way. Need and desire clouds logic.

How fast can you get from 0 to hurt ?

Very fast, in an instant!
But if you won't risk, you won't win!
And you might find out you actually like the " negatives" you see now...or they might not be negatives any more!
I hope you enjoy the experience!

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gentlepaws
Any town, Ontario Canada

Posted: May 3, 2008, 4:55 PM CST

morganlee wrote:

It makes me wonder, why we go back and keep doing

it, sometimes l believe it is better to be alone .

I was alone and made friends with it. Then someone entered my life and is now disturbing that peace.

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Aries01
Dublin, Dublin Ireland

Posted: May 3, 2008, 4:56 PM CST

gentlepaws wrote:

What does one do when someone walks into your life, that turns you on, has many attributes, yet many negatives as well ? Especially when you've been in the desert without water for a long time. You measure the situation, you come up with the answer, "No". Passion gets in the way. Need and desire clouds logic.

How fast can you get from 0 to hurt ?

Leo.... I say give it a chance and don't be afraid... we ALL have negatives... if you connect with someone.. on any level.. sound it out!!!... don't venture the physical until you have spent some time with them... ya never know.. maybe when you weigh the positive/negative balance you might end up with some credit in the account... all I know is you can't go through life expecting a person to have NO negatives.. if that were the case... I'm doomed

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gentlepaws
Any town, Ontario Canada

Posted: May 3, 2008, 4:57 PM CST

Xtabentun wrote:

Very fast, in an instant!
But if you won't risk, you won't win!
And you might find out you actually like the " negatives" you see now...or they might not be negatives any more!
I hope you enjoy the experience!

I hope you're right, yet all my experience says, "Run away".

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gentlepaws
Any town, Ontario Canada

Posted: May 3, 2008, 4:59 PM CST

Is it a matter of self confidence, a wanting to be loved and held with passion ?

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK

Posted: May 3, 2008, 5:00 PM CST

morganlee wrote:

It makes me wonder, why we go back and keep doing

it, sometimes l believe it is better to be alone .

Helloo Morgan

Yeah I lived with that view for yeeears. it IS easier.

I used to sit and watch my friends relationships.. . I'd watch them bickering and NOT having fun together when we were all out somewhere or whatever.. and I'd think.. PHEW!... it's not ME going throo all that crap.

me and my Chinese are going home to watch CSI.

Being single and unfeeling .. IS much easier. IMO.

Hellooo Leeee-ohhhhh

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK

Posted: May 3, 2008, 5:01 PM CST

Xtabentun wrote:

Very fast, in an instant!
But if you won't risk, you won't win!
And you might find out you actually like the " negatives" you see now...or they might not be negatives any more!
I hope you enjoy the experience!

Yups.. I do agree you should risk it.

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morganlee
Qawra, Majjistral Malta

Posted: May 3, 2008, 5:01 PM CST

gentlepaws wrote:

I was alone and made friends with it. Then someone entered my life and is now disturbing that peace.

that's my point, i have lived here 18 months alone and felt relatively content, not in a selfish way. Let someone in begin to trust and then it's abused, is it worth it? or does there become a time when you really can't take it anymore ?

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK

Posted: May 3, 2008, 5:03 PM CST

gentlepaws wrote:

I am a fool for passion and I'm hurting already.

haha I'm like that.. a walking blimmin Disney fairytale

When I'm not wearing my armour of course.

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morganlee
Qawra, Majjistral Malta

Posted: May 3, 2008, 5:03 PM CST

Claayer wrote:

Helloo Morgan

Yeah I lived with that view for yeeears. it IS easier.

I used to sit and watch my friends relationships.. . I'd watch them bickering and NOT having fun together when we were all out somewhere or whatever.. and I'd think.. PHEW!... it's not ME going throo all that crap.

me and my Chinese are going home to watch CSI.

Being single and unfeeling .. IS much easier. IMO. Hellooo Leeee-ohhhhh

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Xtabentun
Ontario, Ontario Canada

Posted: May 3, 2008, 5:03 PM CST

gentlepaws wrote:

I hope you're right, yet all my experience says, "Run away".

I know what you mean, I am quite the same lately....but i am working on changing and trying....i don't want to loose the chance by not knowing.....many times we're terrified when starting a relationship but allow yourself to enjoy it and get to know the person next to you with acceptance.
Open and you will receive!

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