im surprised ............. actually no im not
okay should we judge someone on how they look ? no
but we do anyway .
if your attracted to someone ,it means you like them but that will only go so far without the lust factor
so in order to have lust you must feel attracted to that person .
shame on you who lied and you know who you are !
you could like that persons wit and what not ,but without the looks to peak your interest they wont ever pass that "just friends" barrier
believe me im not saying its right ,im just pointing out the obvious .
we have been brought up to find the best for ourselves and this is no different .
this takes me back to a previous thread "describe how you view the person above you from there pics" and most of you contributed to that thread so yes most of us do judge on looks .those who say they dont ? its your conscience .