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are you the kind of person that says what they mean ?
do you get petty when ignored ?
do you lie or fib to please others on here ?

i dont expect any replies but dont you just get fed up with the "holy ones" ? i mean if no1 was telling any fibs on this place then heaven would be very crowded indeed

examples ? ok

no i dont start fights in threads BUT s/he called me this that and the next thing ,so why not just say your line ,make your point then ignore the back fire ?

no i dont like liars BUT iv fibbed a bit about the real me ! if your such an honest ,unjudgemental , upfront person why point elbows or hide who you really are ?


remember everything you post in the forums is recorded it just takes a bit of searching ,but then when you find it you say to your self thats not what they said yesterday ? do you know what i mean ?

please dont take offense and get all angry and snide ,iv saw enough disrespect in this place today that now its water off a ducks back .

I am not holy and flirting has got me into trouble, on here.

Me too!

you are a bright smart funny lass lush ,dont let peoples opinions stifle your contribution as i see you as a being an honest and just person ,and if no one ever flirted on here it wouldn't be a singles forum ?

I am very honest but tactful...I have been on CS on and off for a year and a half and only had one arguement in all the hundreds threads I have posted to. But everyone had a disagreement with this person....

I have a good reason not to flirt anymore.

I'm glad i'm cleared of one fault. i mean


Hey, , you could join a flirts club and i can do a guest appearance....like that Krazie?

see thats the problem with some people ,they have so much to say about other people and how they view them but god forbid you have a view on them

That would be awesome Luscious.

i gave up being tactful this morning ,if they are going to have a foot up my arse i will have a leg up theirs

Thanks girl, you are highly intelligent and independent of thinking. Not often you see that, around here.

Most people flirt, just that some aren't supposed to ( whatever that means).

I can only be me.

Sometimes a closed fist is better than an open hand. But if that happens, taking it off the forums and into e-mail would be the best option.

Some people thrive off fighting and controversy. Nothing wrong with that...it keeps the world interesting.

The cool thing about not caring what other people think of me is I don't care what other people think of me! I sometimes wonder why others give such direct advice and it comes across as 'you should do this' because this is what I think you should do. Makes me laugh!
I just come on here to have some fun, at my own expense, not others.

If that person had a disagreement with everyone, it would mean they have no friends. Who talks to such people, i bet no one? Goodness, they would have to be banned. Are they still around? I hope not.

i firmly agree but some people just need a good shake ,i have seen many on here cut there nose off just to prove a point or get recognition from the others .circus ? not far from it

He really liked you alot luscious!!!

That is the only hint I will give.

By the way, I later apologized to him and he to me.

see this was brought up the other day there ,if you dont stick by them your an unfeeling bastard ,if you do your an arse .

so i shall be the little piggy today and leave them outside the house huffing and puffing

Oh boy.

Anyway, i'm not sure who it is but i think it's hard to settle scores, with people who refuse to respond to private email, only to do it in public. I tried it with one person and it failed. I have also seen the same people turn on their 'friends' publicly. I can only say i am glad i not a friend to all, with such people around.





If he apologised in private email, then i think you should try to accept it and be glad they saw their faults. It takes guts to do that.

I find I have been myself on threads and in mail. I have been a one liner clown, have taken ridicule for it. It's who I am sometimes. I have opened up a bit lately, have taken ridicule for that. I have been both, that is who I am. I really don't care how you take me. I have received horrible mail from some members. You are blocked. You are not going to ruin my day. Don't get me wrong. I tried to be diplomatic, but that does not mean I will change my view. I respect yours. Respect mine. I do not change my mind, nor do I go with the flow. I found myself defending someone on a thread one day. I sacrificed myself to the lions. I was glad to see the reaction of some people. The others, I didn't care weather they liked it or not.
Hell yes, I am a terrible flirt.
Those who like me
Those who don't piss off
wow, I feel better