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have experienced or how they handled various situations.

Scenario 1:

You strike up a conversation with someone and speak at length. Then all of a sudden they have decided that you are the love of their life and they want to spend the rest of their life with you. Meanwhile you've never met the person and you aren't even thinking in that sense about them.

Scenario 2:

A person makes it blatantly obvious that they want more than friendship and you are not interested. They continually persist that they are wanting more than friendship and no matter how you try to deter them and keep the distance they continually keep pushing that boundary.

What do you do if they are persistent in the stated scenarios?

Do you set boudaries and make others aware of those boundaries?

Do you tell them to go fly a kite?I have seen this happen on here several times as well as experienced it myself. I'm sure I could probably think of a million more questions to add...but at least it's a start.

Secenario 1 : Run as fast as you canSecenario 2: If they don't take the hit .....Block them

Love at first site true can be real but what about on a web site is that not a totally different setup.

have experienced or how they handled various situations.

Scenario 1:

You strike up a conversation with someone and speak at length. Then all of a sudden they have decided that you are the love of their life and they want to spend the rest of their life with you. Meanwhile you've never met the person and you aren't even thinking in that sense about them.

Scenario 2:

A person makes it blatantly obvious that they want more than friendship and you are not interested. They continually persist that they are wanting more than friendship and no matter how you try to deter them and keep the distance they continually keep pushing that boundary.

What do you do if they are persistent in the stated scenarios?

Do you set boudaries and make others aware of those boundaries?

Do you tell them to go fly a kite?I have seen this happen on here several times as well as experienced it myself. I'm sure I could probably think of a million more questions to add...but at least it's a start.

Yes, it is.Well, I was talking bout real love at first sight.

Hmmmm let's really throw a wrench in the first scenario...

Maybe you had brief contact with the person many years ago and it was merely due to mutual friends. You've been out of contact wih the friends for a very long time and this person all of a sudden pops up.

ok thanks for response , But i have seen where on a site people just by talking on phone talking about marriage and kids , whch i have seen it happen before people can hide and be anything behind this moitor , and meet and not even like one another. What questions me is we are all smart and have been through crap in our life ,how do we or can we fall for words on yahoo or a pretty voices?

ok thanks for response , But i have seen where on a site people just by talking on phone talking about marriage and kids , whch i have seen it happen before people can hide and be anything behind this moitor , and meet and not even like one another. What questions me is we are all smart and have been through crap in our life ,how do we or can we fall for words on yahoo or a pretty voices?

i agree with you , so easy to portray only what we want people to see, maybe because you only see what you want to if you are lonely

Internet and dating sitesr a place where people from all over the world can contact each other, to send information, to find new friends. It looks simple and friendly way to socialize but it hides in itself bad things, of course.When chatting with people you can say whtever you want but its not sure that the person from the other side is a friend of yours.They can use the information that you give in some way to offend you or to know some very personal details.You only decide whether to trust.

Use your instinct.....



Listen to yourself, u are usually right....

I am trying..

Good!

and if yu make mistakes, don't worry....

that's the way one learns....

Good!

and if yu make mistakes, don't worry....

that's the way one learns....

Im tired of learning i want school to be over!

have experienced or how they handled various situations.
Scenario 1:
You strike up a conversation with someone and speak at length. Then all of a sudden they have decided that you are the love of their life and they want to spend the rest of their life with you. Meanwhile you've never met the person and you aren't even thinking in that sense about them.

Scenario 2:

A person makes it blatantly obvious that they want more than friendship and you are not interested. They continually persist that they are wanting more than friendship and no matter how you try to deter them and keep the distance they continually keep pushing that boundary.

What do you do if they are persistent in the stated scenarios?

Do you set boudaries and make others aware of those boundaries?

Do you tell them to go fly a kite?I have seen this happen on here several times as well as experienced it myself. I'm sure I could probably think of a million more questions to add...but at least it's a start

Ha?

As if it ever stops......

Thought I knew it all by 30.....

and here I am, still learning how little I really know...

*high five on that and if you noticed as we wait how much world and people are changing each day always something new ...

I would confront her and ask her some questions. I would say that this person is desperate and looking for somebody to make her happy. I would surely say that the person is very much unstable and unhappy with herself as well as her life. I would more than likely cut it off right there.
I would put my foot down and straight up say that I am not interested. If it persists, then I simply ignore her. If it still persists, then would in a sense say go fly a kite.