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Well, if I had a sex life at the moment, you wouldn't hear about it from me on the forums.

If I was dating someone from the forums, you wouldn't hear the details about it here either. I'd just say I'm dating someone.

My past? I'm pretty open about most things, willing to talk about sex and my experiences. But without names and places and gory details that many internet types like for getting their jollies

I believe that discretion is especially important if you are a parent.

Otherwise, it's up to the individual as to how much one wants to reveal to the whole computer connected world.

I am an open book through e-mails. Some things I do not feel comfortable talking about on an open forum.

and the answer is.......NO (I think)

gotchya Ask me anything ship

If my ex described my ass in public, he'd be doing me a favor.

No, I mostly ignore anything which I find too personal or innane - but to each their own i say.

Girl where you been all day? I bet your ass is luscious....ha ha...oh I'm such a teasy flirt

I like the tone of that. Wise....wise woman you are trish...

Yeah, different opinions indeed! I wouldn't talk about EVERYthing and I would certainly not answer questions about ANYthing, as some things are really best left unsaid (not to mention that I have yet to meet someone on here with whom I'd be inclined to share the more personal stuff)
And no, I'm totally not concerned what people would say.... especially seeing as this is a rather anonymous medium.. I just feel that not everything needs to be discussed on a public forum, some things belong only to the two people concerned at the particular time and place.

That's the spirit!!

You're just rude.


Kidding!

On a serious note, i have known 2 men who have shared our bedroom details, with their friends. One actually told me he would tell and i thought he was kidding, his friend then mentioned something that left me The guy was hitting on me and it slipped out that he knew thinking i would feel compelled to give him a chance. Yuk!

It isn't nice when a man you're seeing says some personal things about you, but i would not lose any sleep over it. I really wouldn't. I knew what i was getting into, when i lost my virginity. That's life and so is gossip. You can't stop people from saying what they want.

I only laugh because they will never get another chance to enjoy the goodies.

i dunno whats too specific...

im also not real concerned with your opinion of what might be too specific (not you personally of course)

when im here im either goofin or sharing
ive nothing to hide
and have when it seemed appropriate
shared quite personal things

ive gotten mail from 'friends' and 'strangers' saying
thanks for telling that-sometimes cuz it helped them
in some way and i guess sometime because
it fleshes out the real fullness/facets of who i am.

everyone is here w/ various intentions.
i wouldnt share something untruthful.
i dont exaggerate, and i am often attacked as being "fake"
after sharing something, which we all know means a liar-
thats more your problem than mine, as i know me-LOL

i guess my point is that there is no regulator of standards here
thats what makes it great. i write basically stream of consciousness-my responses are always right in the moment.

so who sets the standard for what is too much?
there are advisements
there are preferences

i am very open and i have talked to many about many things-sometimes just exchanging a couple letters, ever.

i cant imagine anything i would keep secret-
i truly believe our experiences-mostly the hard ones
are recycled to help another-
ive just been on both ends of that so many times
so why hide what could bless another?

what can someone hurt me with if its a truth of my life?

i dont post my kids-or give opportunity to defraud me
other than that- im here to laff and share-why not?
when i first came here i was virtually paralyzed-
it kept me sane and afloat when i was completely isolated.

anyway im sure everyone thinks this is another post
thats too long but thats just too bad

I feel the same way!

Well so far the results would indicate the following;

Wont use personal info/is unwise/wouldn't want someone so discreet/or the people have to be mad to tell everything = 64 per cent

Exhibitionist/doesn't matter/who cares = 32 per cent

Other - Not Specified = 4 per cent

Conclusion so far is its unwise to discuss your personal info on the forums, as at the least you might lead others to believe your judgement isn't sound and your mad! Either way there not likely to date you!

Lets see what happens if this bears out with the same percentages over a few days.

What puzzles me is what some seem to think I (or anyone else reading this forum) want to know, or need to know...
As in does what they have to say really have any interest to anyone else...with the info shared...

noooooo LUSH say it aint so

you must be fake too!





here for just a second but hi

i dunno this post, it just opened a few little scabs...
myself and a few other women have been called liars
for having an interesting and varied life experience

but i try to remember you are all just little people in a little box
and screw-what do i care what you think?

as i live my life authentically and w/o shame, oddly-im more
peaceful and cause less wreckage...coincidence?

i got tired. shame is heavy, regret is different.
got tired of feeling, being and sharing bitterness.
it made me sick in the end now didnt it...?


and as far as needing to be of interest to CS members
all the time?
well i didnt know that was my job?
i never got the memo when i joined

the best i can give is to myself
if im boring dont look when you see my foto-simple.
i dont feel under pressure to entertain-
obviously not everyone will comprehend or enjoy
or connect w/ everyone--so many judges here sometimes>

i would venture a guess there is more discussion on the forums about nothing, superficial, acquaintance comedy
that lasts for years, and politics and gd and "other people"
i mean a bit of that is one thing-im not interested in a steady diet of it i enjoy connecting, and i cant do that w/o sharing.

people ask questions whats wrong w/ answering?
half of what i say is in mail anyway-if i was as nice and supportive here as in mail you still wouldnt like me,
some of you-


oh well

Share little if any personal information....but once in awhile I have an opinion I may share.

noooooo LUSH say it aint so

you must be fake too!





here for just a second but hi

i dunno this post, it just opened a few little scabs...
myself and a few other women have been called liars
for having an interesting and varied life experience

but i try to remember you are all just little people in a little box
and screw-what do i care what you think?

as i live my life authentically and w/o shame, oddly-im more
peaceful and cause less wreckage...coincidence?

i got tired. shame is heavy, regret is different.
got tired of feeling, being and sharing bitterness.
it made me sick in the end now didnt it...?