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Would you quit job, sell car, house, tv and move after someone if you had fallen in LOVE?

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Would you quit job, sell car, house, tv and move after someone if you had fallen in LOVE?

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StressFree
SF Bay Area/Las Vegas, California USA
Posted: May 6, 2008, 6:05 PM CST
Pedrito wrote:
I completely hadn't such thread in my mind....

but you're right cos I just considering moving to UK to be with my daughter...hmmmm...


Isn't it hard being away from your daughter? So far?
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Pedrito
Poland/USA/San Francico, LA, California USA
Posted: May 6, 2008, 6:27 PM CST
StressFree wrote:
Isn't it hard being away from your daughter? So far?


It is.

You see her growing. Forming first concious, not necesairlrly right, but her own decisions.... And you ask yourself a question... Can I do anything to help her do better than I did....


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Posted: May 6, 2008, 6:30 PM CST
SELL MY TV!dropping jaw




















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StressFree
SF Bay Area/Las Vegas, California USA
Posted: May 6, 2008, 6:35 PM CST
Pedrito wrote:
It is.

You see her growing. Forming first concious, not necesairlrly right, but her own decisions.... And you ask yourself a question... Can I do anything to help her do better than I did....


So you moved to Frisco for love and away from your daughter? I am guessing there is a lot to this story and it is none of my business. I moved away from Frisco to Sweden because of love and my son. I went nuts knowing that I was not there to watch my son grow up. So I reconciled with my sons mom, and the best decision at the time was to move to Sweden. I was 26. My son was 3. I'm 35 now and I don't regret the decision. I don't know what I am saying, but I just know that if I would have stayed in Frisco, I would have been very uncomfortable with myself.

I don't know your situation and sorry to bring it up. You seem kinda shook up. I would just suggest from experience, to be close to your daughter.
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bubbles69
Inverness, Scotland UK
Posted: May 6, 2008, 6:42 PM CST
Yep I would, in fact I did.grin
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kissmedeeply
New brunswick, New Brunswick Canada
Posted: May 6, 2008, 7:25 PM CST
mbcasey wrote:
So gald to hear that Joanne

Tell Eric congrats!!
Hey Ken...I will and thank youhug
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roseofsharon
Casa Felice, Southampton, England UK
Posted: May 6, 2008, 7:42 PM CST
Pedrito wrote:
What must have happened?


Possibly......... lips
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tampa1
London, Ontario Canada
Posted: May 6, 2008, 8:23 PM CST
Nope...
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StarliteFantazy
FantazyLand, Missouri USA
Posted: May 6, 2008, 9:22 PM CST
under the right circumstances..............absolutely
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gangel
Plovdiv, Plovdiv Bulgaria
Posted: May 6, 2008, 9:31 PM CST
I don't think so....wave
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Aries01
Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Posted: May 6, 2008, 9:35 PM CST
If it was of the elusive 'real and true' variety yes.. but I would have to be very sure smile
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gangel
Plovdiv, Plovdiv Bulgaria
Posted: May 6, 2008, 9:36 PM CST
Aries01 wrote:
If it was of the elusive 'real and true' variety yes.. but I would have to be very sure



hmmm Me too

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Aries01
Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Posted: May 6, 2008, 9:37 PM CST
StressFree wrote:
So you moved to Frisco for love and away from your daughter? I am guessing there is a lot to this story and it is none of my business. I moved away from Frisco to Sweden because of love and my son. I went nuts knowing that I was not there to watch my son grow up. So I reconciled with my sons mom, and the best decision at the time was to move to Sweden. I was 26. My son was 3. I'm 35 now and I don't regret the decision. I don't know what I am saying, but I just know that if I would have stayed in Frisco, I would have been very uncomfortable with myself.

I don't know your situation and sorry to bring it up. You seem kinda shook up. I would just suggest from experience, to be close to your daughter.
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shipoker55
St. Petersburg, Florida USA
Posted: May 6, 2008, 11:00 PM CST
In a word.....NO
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britainynicole08
Amherst, Massachusetts USA
Posted: May 6, 2008, 11:16 PM CST
No. I would never trust someone enough to give up everything for them. If it doesn't work out or if something happens, then where do you go? I'd do things differently, maybe move, to go after someone if we loved each other but I need to have something that's mine and separate that I can go back to
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KingLeo
Frederickson, Washington USA
Posted: May 6, 2008, 11:20 PM CST
I don't believe I trust people enough to ever be able to answer "yes" to such a question.
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Aries01
Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Posted: May 6, 2008, 11:31 PM CST
KingLeo wrote:
I don't believe I trust people enough to ever be able to answer "yes" to such a question.


Its a shame in a way that we have all seemed to lose our innocence/trust... our parents and our grandparents generation would have thrown it all into the pot and taken a chance... and a larger proportion of those marriages lasted...

Shame really.. having said that I wouldn't be reckless about such a choice myself and would want to be really sure.. true love doesn't come along everyday, and not everyone is privelaged enough to have it.. so if it came along.. I wouldn't turn my back on it...

JMV

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britainynicole08
Amherst, Massachusetts USA
Posted: May 6, 2008, 11:34 PM CST
Aries01 wrote:
Its a shame in a way that we have all seemed to lose our innocence/trust... our parents and our grandparents generation would have thrown it all into the pot and taken a chance... and a larger proportion of those marriages lasted...

Shame really.. having said that I wouldn't be reckless about such a choice myself and would want to be really sure.. true love doesn't come along everyday, and not everyone is privelaged enough to have it.. so if it came along.. I wouldn't turn my back on it...

JMV



The difference from those times is well, morals. Morals have changed so much and not to mention population is soaring... the more people there are, the weirder they get. Crime rates go up. The world is a very unsafe place and it's safer for you to not trust people. It is a shame but unfortunately how our worlds works now.
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sxc666
Wagga Wagga, New South Wales Australia
Posted: May 6, 2008, 11:35 PM CST
Aries01 wrote:
Its a shame in a way that we have all seemed to lose our innocence/trust... our parents and our grandparents generation would have thrown it all into the pot and taken a chance... and a larger proportion of those marriages lasted...

Shame really.. having said that I wouldn't be reckless about such a choice myself and would want to be really sure.. true love doesn't come along everyday, and not everyone is privelaged enough to have it.. so if it came along.. I wouldn't turn my back on it...

JMV


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Aries01
Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Posted: May 6, 2008, 11:39 PM CST
britainynicole08 wrote:
The difference from those times is well, morals. Morals have changed so much and not to mention population is soaring... the more people there are, the weirder they get. Crime rates go up. The world is a very unsafe place and it's safer for you to not trust people. It is a shame but unfortunately how our worlds works now.


Is it really that bad.. or are we just been conditioned to think that... I think you will find statistically that a large portion of people are actually law abiding and reasonably moral..which comes first the chicken or the egg.. has the institution of marriage been eroded by our growing mistrust and determination to self preserve??

Some of these types of thoughts can be self-fulfilling

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