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no....

I would make her do all that instead












JK, of course

While a good portion of society abide by the laws set forth it doesn't change the fact that nearly everyone is really out for themselves. As for the other side of the spectrum - it only takes a few bad experiences from those bad people to create for one an ill perception towards a particular demograph.

We learn from our experiences and base our decisions from those experiences.
Olive Garden has horrible cheeses and sausages - I will never eat there again as long as I have a say in it.

Also the world is seperated into people with opinions, our personalities will frequently clash with those of others and the world.
I think smoking is a waste of time, money, and life and I refuse to date a smoker. I'll be damned if the mother of my children is a smoker.

This is precisely what I am saying.. which comes first the chicken or the egg... has this principally mistrusting society originated from the fact that we are princicpally mistrusting.... it is a fact of life that we will be let down.. at 35, I know something about that....but I refuse to let negative experiences and/or negative people take possession of my future.. that my friend belongs to me.. and I chose to continue to give people and life the benefit of the doubt

apparently you're without the guy now, but you must like it there: marmaris is a wonderful location

I concur Aries...

And Guinness ONLY tastes good in Ireland!!!...

Really...

Its all in the pouring... there is an art to it .. .otherwise the difference isn't as great as you would imagine...

Nice to meet a fellow Guinness enthusiast though

Yes, I would move if I fell in love, but only if it was a mutual, serious relationship (probably only for marriage) and only if I didn't have to give up my life in Europe--and only for a warm place, somewhere around the Med. I'm not picky!

Allright I get what you're saying now.

Me too it would have to be someone that I considered 'the one' essentially, and I wouldn't rush into it.. someone who is really serious about you would allow you that time and space... as u would them

No, really, the Guinness in the states tastes like shite!!!...

Oh, and to stay on Topic, the answer is YES!!!....

Is it really that easy with immigration to the USA now (even from Canada), or do you already know that your visa will be approved in June? (if that's possible to know at all) Just curious, and sorry this is off the topic!

Getting married and moving there is no problem whatsoever so long as you don't have a criminal record that would prevent you from entering the US otherwise. Working there is another matter and will cost mony and take time, even if you are married to a US citizen.


To the OP, yes I would consider it. Six months ago I would have said yes in a heartbeat but things have changed slightly and I'm stuck here for at least another year or two.
Material possessions don't mean as much to me as I thought they might, and some even less in the grand scheme of things. I'm moving and parting with some stuff I've had for twenty years or more, so getting rid of the rest wouldn't be as big a deal as it once might have been.
I don't think people's morals have changed much overall and I don't believe everyone is out for themselves alone. I'm out for myself but if I was with someone, I'd be out for them just as much or more than for myself.
Maybe people are more afraid to try new things, take chances or simply afraid of change. Things change even if you don't like it and why not steer them into a positive direction if you can. Each day we all get older and who knows what tomorrow will bring.
You might end up giving up something in taking a chance but who knows what you might miss if you don't.

No regrets tho because we tried, if i hadn't i would have always wondered,

and thought 'what if' and your right it is a beautiful place to be.

Yes. In a few years time when my kids are a bit older and for the right person...

absolutel, only for The One--and all the rest of it too, as you put so well.

Yes..........I would. But I have to agree with what others have said............trust in ANY kind of relationship these days, whether it be friendship, co-workers, love interests, sometimes even family members, seems to be a major hurdle for most of us to get over. Without the trust, there can be no love.

Really think it depends on who lives where. I mean I wouldn't move to the Middle East but overall I think I would.

This seems like sound advise, SF.


Would I move fo love - yes, to Colorado and hopefully he'd move with me.

Oh, ok. I was always under the impression that there are only two ways to become a legal resident of the US in such a case - get married outside the US and wait for the K-3 (spouse) visa, or get a K-1 (fiance) visa and get married in the US (both of which do take some time to get processed). Just entering the US, getting married there and then applying for a residence permit would be, unless I am severely mistaken, considered a violation of immigration laws, even for citizens of countries that otherwise don't need a visa to visit the US.

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