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Hello dear...!!!

sweety, the point is that you´ll never know how do they feel with the relation they have, you dont know if they are happy or not, they have a relation, something we dont...

so, if you do nothing then you´ll live with a book that you should not been reading, if you do something then you will have to live with the consecuences, and honey, they are just living the part God deserve them, let him do his job, not matter the consecuences... just dont get involve...

we are happy when our friends are happy, when they are angry, suffering for love... what do we do?

with all my heart, kisses

Emilio

PD: please sorry my english

imagine your "friend" discovers this act of her boyfriend, then becomes aware that you knew of this all along?

loyalty and alliances are only as strong as the honesty that holds it together.... yeah it sucks the hurt that could be caused. but even if she forgives him and he was only using the site to do "harmless socializing".
Your friendship with her will still be intact.

another thought I'd consider is simple this maybe he was on this site before he ever met your freind and as most thses sites go many just plain forget to delete their profile or even update them until they are reminded to do so.

Always easier to Post/Start a profile then it is to keep it updated.

You must be sure of his intended cheating. As a friend you should inform her. When you do you run the chance you will be a vilian and lose your friend. (I would give up a friendship for there best interest.) But if the same can be done without chancing the loss of a friend...do so.

Show her this guy that you are interested in (lie) on the site. Do a search that will cause her guy to pop up (fake accident) also. Then turn the pc over to her and console her if she needs it.

Don't let her be made a fool of and used......remember your her friend.

Thanks everybody for all your input, it is interesting to see all the varied responces.

Well I bit the bullet and told her, as I thought I would want to know and then I could decide on what action to take, wether to set up a fake profile or to confront the person.

The outcome was that she knew he still had a profile on a dating site, because he told her he didn't know how to delete it, but it came as a bit of a shock to her when I told her that he had viewed the site yesterday. She said she would look into it and thanked me for telling her. So now it's upto her to decide what to do next. And purely on a selfish basis I am relieved that my part in all this has finished.

THANK YOU ALL AGAIN. Isn't this a great opportunity to be able to put the problems of life out there for a global answer.

Well done..you are indeed a good friend to her

Hey thanks for that, think I knew all along that I would tell her but just needed some encouragement and it's good to know that some may agree with my decision.

I am so glad that these people here gave you good answers, because sometimes they take a persons problems and make a big joke out of it. These people here are really great they have a good brain in there heads. They know that this was a really big problem for you and I am so glad they came threw for you..........Great people.