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I need honest advice

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Gemini73
ATLANTA, Georgia USA
Posted: May 7, 2008, 10:56 PM CST
Hello, I'm posting here because I am not doing so well in dating, either in person or online, so there has to be something fundamentally wrong with me, or with my approach. I would like some honest feedback here to help me improve/change whatever it is that I'm doing wrong. If it's just me, and I'm butt ugly and have a bad personality then I can live with that too, but I need to know what it is that makes me so undesireable to women. I haven't been on a date in over three months, with me trying to get a date. If I just knew what it was that was driving the girls away, maybe I could get some peace.
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dragonfly88
valencia, Valenciana Spain
Posted: May 7, 2008, 10:58 PM CST
Gemini73 wrote:
Hello, I'm posting here because I am not doing so well in dating, either in person or online, so there has to be something fundamentally wrong with me, or with my approach. I would like some honest feedback here to help me improve/change whatever it is that I'm doing wrong. If it's just me, and I'm butt ugly and have a bad personality then I can live with that too, but I need to know what it is that makes me so undesireable to women. I haven't been on a date in over three months, with me trying to get a date. If I just knew what it was that was driving the girls away, maybe I could get some peace.



I would be able to give you advice on that, I haven't met you! how about asking the people you've been out with?

dating and finding "the right" one is not as easy as it seems, I'm afraid. We're all more or less in the same boat here.

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dragonfly88
valencia, Valenciana Spain
Posted: May 7, 2008, 10:58 PM CST
dragonfly88 wrote:
I would be able to give you advice on that, I haven't met you! how about asking the people you've been out with?

dating and finding "the right" one is not as easy as it seems, I'm afraid. We're all more or less in the same boat here.


sorry, I meant, woulnd't be able to
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mhawkins
Chatsworth, Georgia USA
Posted: May 7, 2008, 10:59 PM CST
Don't be anyone that you are not. be yourself and you will find the one that is right for you ...thumbs up
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Posted: May 7, 2008, 10:59 PM CST
i think i ask people i know

dunno

with no frame of reference or experience of you...
what could we say?

just what i think

confused


best to you
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sxc666
Wagga Wagga, New South Wales Australia
Posted: May 7, 2008, 10:59 PM CST
I reckon you should just relax. It will happen when the time is right. Have confidence in yourself and this will come across to others.

Maybe you're coming across as desperate, meaning desperate to get into a relationshipdunnowine
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StressFree
SF Bay Area/Las Vegas, California USA
Posted: May 7, 2008, 11:02 PM CST
sxc666 wrote:
I reckon you should just relax. It will happen when the time is right. Have confidence in yourself and this will come across to others.

Maybe you're coming across as desperate, meaning desperate to get into a relationship


thumbs up thumbs up

Also, stop going for the 5 run homerun in every at bat. Take some pitches....use the whole field meat...
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mastic55
Long Island, New York USA
Posted: May 7, 2008, 11:02 PM CST
sxc666 wrote:
I reckon you should just relax. It will happen when the time is right. Have confidence in yourself and this will come across to others.

Maybe you're coming across as desperate, meaning desperate to get into a relationship
Thats my trouble,dame it , I'm going to start acting like Tom Jones, What's new pussycat,woo,woo,woo,woodancing
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Gemini73
ATLANTA, Georgia USA
Posted: May 7, 2008, 11:07 PM CST
dragonfly88 wrote:
I would be able to give you advice on that, I haven't met you! how about asking the people you've been out with?

dating and finding "the right" one is not as easy as it seems, I'm afraid. We're all more or less in the same boat here.


Thanks for your reply. If I'm understanding you right, I have to date someone to get feedback on why no one is interested in me online. I don't think that will ever happen since I haven't been able to get a date. : )
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Gemini73
ATLANTA, Georgia USA
Posted: May 7, 2008, 11:10 PM CST
sxc666 wrote:
I reckon you should just relax. It will happen when the time is right. Have confidence in yourself and this will come across to others.

Maybe you're coming across as desperate, meaning desperate to get into a relationship


Your cute. : ) Ahh desperate. I'm not sure if I come accross desperate. What does that look like to you?
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kkitty
Minnesota, Minnesota USA
Posted: May 7, 2008, 11:14 PM CST
Gemini73 wrote:
Your cute. : ) Ahh desperate. I'm not sure if I come accross desperate. What does that look like to you?


I think that maybe you might just be a little hot tempered dont you?dunno
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StressFree
SF Bay Area/Las Vegas, California USA
Posted: May 7, 2008, 11:14 PM CST
Gemini73 wrote:
Your cute. : ) Ahh desperate. I'm not sure if I come accross desperate. What does that look like to you?


Women do say they hate being called cute
dunno

It's all in the approach brotha....back off the plate a bit. Choke up on the bat with a relaxed grip. Sit on the fastball and adjust to the off speed pitches.
Hope that helps partner.
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Gemini73
ATLANTA, Georgia USA
Posted: May 7, 2008, 11:16 PM CST
kkitty wrote:
I think that maybe you might just be a little hot tempered dont you?


What???? Why would you say that? confused confused
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sxc666
Wagga Wagga, New South Wales Australia
Posted: May 7, 2008, 11:16 PM CST
It means heavy talk straight, coming on way to strong before you get to know a person.

Friends first is my motto if anything is mean't to be it will follow after that.wine
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sxc666
Wagga Wagga, New South Wales Australia
Posted: May 7, 2008, 11:16 PM CST
straight up that is frustrated
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Gemini73
ATLANTA, Georgia USA
Posted: May 7, 2008, 11:17 PM CST
StressFree wrote:
Women do say they hate being called cute


It's all in the approach brotha....back off the plate a bit. Choke up on the bat with a relaxed grip. Sit on the fastball and adjust to the off speed pitches.
Hope that helps partner.


Thanks. No more calling them cute. : )
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kkitty
Minnesota, Minnesota USA
Posted: May 7, 2008, 11:17 PM CST
StressFree wrote:
Women do say they hate being called cute


It's all in the approach brotha....back off the plate a bit. Choke up on the bat with a relaxed grip. Sit on the fastball and adjust to the off speed pitches.
Hope that helps partner.



no sorry i love being called cute blushing
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shipoker55
St. Petersburg, Florida USA
Posted: May 7, 2008, 11:17 PM CST
I've always found that a healthy bank account helps!!grin
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StressFree
SF Bay Area/Las Vegas, California USA
Posted: May 7, 2008, 11:18 PM CST
kkitty wrote:
no sorry i love being called cute


liar


sxc666 wrote:
straight up that is


you mean like beattheman?
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StressFree
SF Bay Area/Las Vegas, California USA
Posted: May 7, 2008, 11:19 PM CST
shipoker55 wrote:
I've always found that a healthy bank account helps!!


or penile surgery
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